subject: 3 Mistakes Men Make With Women [print this page] Are you the type of guy who can walk into any place and come out with three to four phone numbers from very hot women? If your answer is "no" to that question then you are probably making at least one of the 3 mistakes men make with women.
1. Not Approaching Her
The first mistake is not approaching her. You start thinking too much, over-analyzing what she may or may not be thinking. All sorts of thoughts are running through your head like "I don't know what to say", or "she probably doesn't want to be disturbed", or "what if she rejects me". Any of these sound familiar?
This is definitely stopping you from taking that first crucial step. So why do you have these thoughts? They are all fear based; you are afraid of rejection or of being embarrassed. The best way to get over the fear is by doing what you fear the most. Just go for it, start by asking her for simple directions or what's the best dish on the menu, etc.
You can think of something to start off with and after you realize that they are no longer your enemy, your confidence will start to build up.
2. Not Knowing What To You Say
The second mistake is not knowing what to say. So you get up the nerve, you walk up to the hottie, you start the conversation and she seems to be enjoying your company. All is wonderful and great but then all of a sudden she walks off. Your buddy asks you what happened and you tell him that she lost interest because you ran out of things to say.
Let's face it, guys never run out of things to say. That's just a cop out! The guys that are successful with women always have a lot to say. Throw in some humor or banter lines, how about some common interests you both share, or some silly thing that happened yesterday. Come on guys, you can always find things to talk about. Practice makes perfect, don't ever forget that.
3. Not Stating Your Intent
The third mistake is not stating your intent. Women want to know how you feel about them. If you aren't open and honest about it then she may get the impression that you just want to be friends. Be sure and let her know that you find her attractive. Some of the slickest lines I've ever heard were starting right off the bat by men telling women how they feel about them. Let them know that you find them attractive and not only from her looks. This is very appealing to women so give it a try. You may be pleasantly surprised.
Always remember to not be afraid to approach her, you do have a lot to say so keep the conversation going and let her know how you feel about her right from the start. Don't make these 3 mistakes men make with women anymore. Go for it and you may just surprise yourself.
3 Mistakes Men Make With Women
By: Steve K. Miller
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