subject: Divorce Help For Men - How Can I Save My Marriage? [print this page] I'm sure I'm not the only guy here that's had to go through a separation that seems impossible to fix. I felt exactly the same way when me and my wife were on the verge of divorce!
I had spent a few months in a deep depression because I just couldn't figure out why the heck my wife packed up her things one day and just took off. Do you know how I feel? I was in the lowest point of my life and I didn't know what to do.
During about the 5th month of my separation, I finally decided to do something about it. I got a hold of myself and said, "I'm going to stop being depressed about this and get on with my life and figure out why my wife left me."
During this time, she wouldn't even return a phone call to me. It would take me about 10 times to call her before she would even return my call. And even then, the conversation would be really short.
It was definitely emotionally draining for me at this point. I had spent a good 4 months trying to fix things, but all I was doing was pushing her away. So, I decided that I would just cut off all contact with my wife.
I was basically accepting defeat at this point and if she wanted to meet someone else, I was ready for her to accept it.
But the surprising point was that by not trying to talk to her and move on, she began to notice that I was fixing my life and making things better.
To summarize some things I learned that prevented my divorce:
* Don't be needy - don't call 10 times a day because you'll only push her away farther.
* Stop communication - by not calling her every day, you will be able to separate yourself from her and let her miss you.
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