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Call me crazy, call me old-fashioned, but I absolutely love traditional weddings, and I made it a point to implement the aspects of the old-fashioned into my own wedding with great success.

I would guess that the vast majority of American women know most of the essential ingredients of a time-honored ceremony and reception, but it can be difficult to know how to tailor them into your own vision. That's why I am going to share with you my best suggestions for pulling it off.

To me, one of the most essential aspects of a traditional wedding is the gown you select! Some wedding planners suggest that you search for a period gown--something reminiscent of the 18th or 19th century--but it is obviously up to you.

Think long and hard about what kind of ambiance you want to convey and how your attire (along with that of the groom and the bridal party) can do that. If a period dress is not for you, then you should still select one that has a full skirt and a train. A basic, simplistic train is generally about three feet long, but fancier trains can exceed ten feet.

For your convenience, you should also be able to bustle your train to keep it off the floor and from being stepped on. You should also make sure that you have a small maintenance kit that has stain-fighting wipes contained in it. I was shocked by how filthy my four-foot train became, and though that can be edited out of the pictures, it's still not pretty to look at.

Floor-length gowns for bridesmaids are most appropriate for a traditional, formal appearance. If they are going to be carrying bouquets, you might want to arrange small bunches of roses, as they are a traditional symbol of love and friendship.

The venue is crucial, too, of course. Country clubs and hotels often offer wedding banquets in a comprehensive package that includes a sophisticated lunch or dinner, along with numerous other indulgences and benefits, such as discounted rooms to all guests staying overnight. Some will even make your tiered wedding cake on site so you don't have to make separate arrangements.

When it comes to the ceremony, everyone knows that it's traditional for the father of the bride to walk her down the aisle. But on the other hand, families are very different these days, so feel free to select another male role model--a grandfather, stepfather, or family friend.

Remember that this is your wedding, so there is no harm in putting modern twists on antique traditions. The most important thing is that you are focused on being happy with the ultimate outcome--and your groom!

by: Art Gib




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