subject: Discover Your Ability To Attract Women [print this page] Attraction is a skillAttraction is a skill. It can be learned like any other skill. For some reason attracting women is often seen as something that is strictly talent-based. We all have friends or have seen men who are great at attracting women. They seem to effortlessly do and say just the right things to get women to give them their numbers and engage in romantic encounters.
It's definitely true that some men are naturally talented in the art of seducing women, just like some men seem to be naturally gifted when it comes to playing chess or writing books. The truth is that, no matter what your current level of skill you can learn how to attract women. Read about it. There are hundreds, probably thousands, of books, articles, and websites dedicated to teaching men how to attract women. There are also audio programs, podcasts, and DVD tutorials designed to do the same thing. Take advantage of these resources (many of which are free) and learn as much as you can about this art.
One of the most famous of these resources is "The Game," by Neil Strauss. It details his journey from nerdy writer to master pick up artist. Just remember that reading and doing are two distinct things. No matter how much you read you will never make the leap to master seducer unless you get out there and do it. Own it. Make a commitment to improve your skills at attracting women. Once you've read a bit about the subject get out there and try some of the techniques. Set some goals for yourself: "I will approach five women this week" or "I will budget money to upgrade my wardrobe." Recruit some of your friends to serve as wingmen when you go out.
If you have a friend who is good with women, ask him how he does it. Go out to the club with him and observe how he handles himself, what he says to women, and how they react to him. After you decide that you will definitely learn how to attract women don't let anything stop you from achieving your goals. Participate in a bootcamp. If you have embraced the challenge of learning to attract women chances are you will suffer some rejection. This is fine; any new skill is difficult to learn at first, and some setbacks come along with the territory. One way to shorten the learning curve is to enroll in one of the many bootcamps that are now available.
They are usually led by guys who have been through the same process you are undertaking. They can more easily point out your areas for improvement and offer encouragement. Be aware, however, that these courses can be expensive, and unless you have the money to spare, should probably only be taken after you have tried to learn as much as you can on your own. Any skill can be learned. If you use the resources that are available and put the teachings into practice, accepting setbacks as part of the process, you too will be viewed as a master pick up artist one day soon.
by: Joel Gray
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