subject: How To Stop Stress From Ruining Your Marriage [print this page] There are a lot of factors that can affect marriage. One of them is the stress you get from everyday life at home, office and your own social life. Some of the things that cause stress lead to cheating. Stress actually is enough to create a stir in a marriage. Types of stress are financial concerns in the family, unfulfilled sex with your partner and intervention in the family which are unavoidable every day. So how will you manage these major stresses to lessen its effect to your marriage?
1)Fight back against family interference. You were born to your family. You chose your wife. Your wife is the person you are building your new family with. She is the next stage of your life. Your job is to protect her from harm, even if that harm comes from your family. Blood may be thicker than water but your wife is your future and is now or may someday be the mother of your children. If you can't protect her from your family, the people you have the most influence over in this world, how on earth are you going to protect her from the world?
2)Keep a steady budget. It is fairly stressing to just even think that you have debts to pay every month aside from the bills you regularly pay. Don't let your partner struggle with the "greener-grass syndrome", where one always says " if only my husband has this and that, like so and so's husband."
The best option is some combination of the two until you have your debts paid down and a nest egg in savings. Most importantly, you need to set a budget you both can live with and agree to.
3)Most common stressful problem is sex life. Some couples have been together for many years and sex gets redundant night after night. What you need is a thrill to your intimacy. Learn new ways to excite your partner in bed even twice a week. This will help bring back any lost or forgotten libido in his or her body. Keep a different pattern of sex positions every week, surprise your partner by giving massages before going to sleep, this may start any spark and create a new sexual intimacy with your partner.
by: T Dub Jackson.
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