subject: Tips On How To Approach Women In Bars And Nightclubs - 3 Unique Ways To Approach Her [print this page] For a lot of men, especially those that are a little on the shy side when it comes to approaching women, nightclubs and bars can be kind of intimidating. Between the loud music, the crazy lights, and the crowds, it can be hard for a guy to really walk up to a woman and make any kind of impression on her. If she is really attractive, then it can be especially hard, because of the inevitable fact that you are going to have to deal with competition from other men. Pretty girls tend to get approached quite a bit in bars and nightclubs, especially when the guys start to get a little liquid courage flowing through them.
Here are some tips on how to approach women in bars and nightclubs that should help you approach her and impress her:
1. Whatever you do, don't opt to buy her a drink right away.
The reason for this is, it's what every guy does and if that impressed a girl, well, she would end up being quite busy. Fact is, you don't have to buy her a drink the minute that you walk up to her, and the longer that you wait, the better. You don't want to look like one of those guys that thinks he has to "buy" her time, because that does nothing to make a good impression on her. Sure, she might be grateful for the free drink, but that's about it.
Hey, I know girls that go out with no money at all, simply because they KNOW that a bunch of the guys will buy them drinks all night long. And no, they don't ever wind up going home with those men, they go home with the ones that DON'T buy them drinks right away.
2. Get in close to her when making conversation.
One of the coolest things about approaching a woman in a loud place like a club or a bar, is, it gives you a natural excuse to get in close to her right away. While it might look a little weird if you were on the street during the day time, in a club, it looks perfectly natural to get within inches of her if you are starting a conversation with a woman. This can help you to kind of speed up the attraction, and move into using physical touch right away.
3. Grab her by the hand and take her out on the dance floor.
I've never had a woman pull away once I have opened her and got a little rapport going and then just grabbed her by the hand and brought her out to the dance floor. Even if it is just a bar with a jukebox, you can still lead her by the hand and immediately take the position of being an alpha male, while also building up a LOT of fun sexual tension and chemistry dancing with her.
by: Chris Tyler
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