subject: How To Get A Girlfriend - Tips That Cannot Be Missed! [print this page] You are tired of the lonely nights sitting on your beer stained couch, channel surfing through show after show that you really do not want to watch anyway. You look to your side and imagine what it would be like if there was a woman staring back at you, with a longing in her eyes. You are tired of scouting around on dating websites, going out to bars and coming home empty handed. More than anything else in the world at the moment, you want a girlfriend.
That's PERFECT!
Yeah, I know it does not seem anything close to perfect right now, but you are at least in tune with what you want. So many people walk through life never really knowing that much. I've talked to a LOT of men who have gone on endlessly moaning about their lack of a love life, and yet, when they are prompted - they really don't know what they want.
Knowing what you want is half the battle. The other half of the battle is to find out how to get what you want. In this case, that means you need to find out how to get a girlfriend. While that may seem like quite the open ended question, it's going to put YOU on the right track.
Here are some tips on how to get a girlfriend that you cannot miss if you really want it to happen:
1. Understand what kind of a social setting you are most comfortable in.
Some guys really cannot handle a loud and noisy night club and that is okay. As long as you know what kind of social settings you can handle and where you are most comfortable, that is going to be your best bet for finding a girlfriend. The one caveat to this is, if the social setting where you are most comfortable typically does not have a lot of women, that can be a problem.
2. Get comfortable in approaching women without having to think about it.
If you are going to get a girlfriend, then you need to do a lot less thinking and a lot more doing. In this case, this means that you need to approach as many women that catch your eye as possible. Anything having to do with people means that you have to play by the numbers and you have to make the first move. If you are in a social setting where you feel most comfortable and you see a woman who is attractive to you, make your move and approach her.
3. Learn how to make small talk that leads to longer conversations.
For some people, it is hard to make small talk, especially the kind of small talk that leads to longer conversations. This is something that you are going to have to "master" and it takes more experience to get better at it. This is another reason why the number of women you approach does matter. You need experience in making small talk so that you can weave it into much longer conversations.
4. Be complimentary without being phony.
It's okay to give a woman a compliment. It really is. The thing is, most of the time when a guy gives a woman a compliment, it seems kind of phony. She already knows that the only reason she is getting complimented is because the guy thinks she is hot. What YOU want to do to be different is to be genuine with your compliments. Make them mean something and they will and any woman will appreciate that.
5. Discover the biggest secret to getting a girlfriend - the power of being aloof.
Some guys reject the idea of being aloof with women because they think that it means they are acting like a jerk. Well, it can come across that way if you are doing it wrong. If you are doing it right, on the other hand, it makes it seem like you are not desperate for a girlfriend and that you probably have many options. And that can be very alluring to a woman, especially if she is used to having men dote on her and fawn all over her all of the time.
by: Andrew Grimsley
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