subject: How To Get Over A Cheating Girlfriend - 4 Tips To Move On From This Gut Wrenching Experience [print this page] Ask 100 guys what the worst thing that could happen in a relationship could possibly be and I would bet that at least 90 of them would say that having a girlfriend cheat on them would be about the worst thing that could happen. It's one of those things that you know can happen - but you never hope that it actually does happen to you. So, if you recently found out that your girlfriend cheated on you, then you are probably having a hard time dealing with this gut wrenching experience. It may seem like you will never be able to move on from this, but you can.
Here are 4 tips to help you get over a cheating girlfriend:
1) Repeat the statement, "It was not me, it was her," over and over until it sinks in.
The most damage that can come from a cheating girlfriend is that you can feel like it was your fault and that just is not the case most of the time. Even though it may seem that way, and that may be how she tries to spin it, you have to know that she was the one that made the choice to cheat. She could have broken up with you. She could have worked out any issues in the relationship with you. She did not have to cheat on you and it is not your fault that she did.
2) Try to think back on all of the girlfriends that you did have that did not cheat on you.
Just because one girlfriend cheated on you, it does not mean that they all will or that they all did. Remind yourself of this by thinking back on your past dating experiences just so that you can reinforce the idea that it does not have to happen and that not all women are wired to cheat. You don't want to go on thinking that all women are going to do that to you, as that can make it impossible to try a new relationship.
3) Make a point to decide to rebound from this.
You don't want to allow an experience like this jade you on the prospects of finding a new girlfriend. You don't want to just bunker down in your house, afraid to put yourself out there again. Make it a point to get back in the dating game and you will find that it makes it so much easier to get over the experience of being cheated on.
4) Learn how to attract women and keep them attracted to you so that you don't have to worry about this ever happening again.
I guess it is a bit of a stretch for me to say that you will never have to worry about a cheating girlfriend, but when you know how to attract a woman so that she stays attracted to you - it certainly lowers the odds of this actually happening again. Take the time to learn what it takes to attract a woman so much that she stays attracted to you and you will be able to remove any insecurities that you have about a girlfriend cheating on you.
by: Chris Tyler
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