subject: 30 Advices For Cultivating The Children [print this page] To any parents, children is a new subject to them. They become a father or a mother without any experience. Meanwhile, to help the children to grow up healthily both in physical and mental aspects is so important that numerous parents enter into the parents school to learn how to cultivate their children in right ways. Here are 30 advices some experts give to help parents to behave themselves as far as the cultivation of children is concerned. These advices fall into two general groups: one group is about how to help the children grow up in character and the other group is about how to educate them generally beyond merely in class.
As for how to grow up
1. Allow your children rights to keep their own privacy.
2.Allow them the chances to make their choices on themselves.
3. Respect their choice of their own friends.
4.Prepare a shelf for them and they can show their articles.
5. Treat their questions and advices seriously.
6. Treat them as your equal friends.
7.Learn to appreciate every progress they make.
8. Kiss and embrace them to show how much you love them.
9.Commuincate with them frequently.
10.Never label a fool on them
11.Listen to their troubles patiently
12. Allow them opportunity to get together with their peers.
13.Get through the predicament in life with them.
14.Encourage them not to depend on the adults.
15.Know what friends they have.
As to how to educate them
1.Spend at least half an hour communicating with the children.
2. Say polite words to children even at home.
3.Donot always remind them of the mistakes in the past.
4.Donnot enforce them to realize your dreams.
5.Donnot shield their shortcomings. Punishment is necessary sometimes.
6.Education does not merely mean to tell them reasons; harsh measures can also be accepted.
7. To ponder at least one question about their growing everyday.
8. To build up their benevolence. To be kind is the guarantee to be happy.
9.Never eat your own words before your children.
10. Put yourself in the childrens shoes.
11. Allow them space and freedom; meanwhile ask them to take some responsibility.
12. Make it clear to them that they have already been lovely enough and they do not need to show off.
13. Continuously find traits in their behaviors.
14.Do not be too harsh to them or you will frighten them and make them too shy.
15. Help them to build a good idol.
by: jiale
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