subject: Working Out Problems With Your Girlfriend - Sometimes Talking Things Through Helps [print this page] If you are one of those guys who normally clams up when it comes to relationship problems, then you may want to consider changing that right now if you are having issues that need to be dealt with. Your girlfriend will not only be happy that you are showing off a new side to yourself, you are also much more likely to be able to really work things out if you are open to the idea of being able to talk things through with her. That may be a change of pace for yourself, but it might be one that brings about welcomed changes to your relationship dynamic with her.
When you are able to show your girlfriend that you are willing to talk things through, you are showing her that you really are serious about the relationship and that you do want things to work out with her. Of course that is a good thing, and it is something that you want to be able to show her so that she knows that there is something there that she does not want to just walk away from. Not to scare you or anything, but plenty of relationships have come to an end because there was no communication when things got real in the relationship.
You don't want that to happen to you and your girlfriend, do you?
Probably not and in that case, you want to learn the best way to go about talking things out with her. One thing that you do not want to do is to make things seem overly dramatic. Blowing things out of proportion is never a good idea and you can give her that impression if it seems like you are being overly dramatic. Another thing that you don't want to do is to come across as being too sensitive. It's good to be a little bit on the sensitive side of things, but too much and you could end up losing the attraction that she feels for you.
Try to get her to open up.
You also want to make sure that your girlfriend is more than willing to open up to you. Talking things through with her means that it has to be both you and her that is willing to do this and for that, you need to be able to get her to open up. Let her know that no matter what she says, you are going to be there for her and that you will listen and have an open mind to what she has to say.
by: Chris Tyler
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