subject: What Should Parents Do If Your Children Are Teased In Kindergarten [print this page] This article is unique because at the beginning, I will introduce one case and then get the suggestion from children development experts.
When your children are three or four years old, you send them into the kindergarten. However, just a few weeks, they are not willing to go to school because their favorite toys are always taken by other children. Under such circumstance, they always feel aggrieved and even grumble to cry when they see their mothers.
Accoding to children development experts, it is common to find the case introduced above because children at the age don't know how to contact and communicate with other children, therefore they always use their own way to get their favorite toys, which is to grab other children's toys. At the same time, during this age, kids are more likely to have the toys on other people's hands due to the strong acquisitiveness. Many parents and even kindergarener can't treat such condition accurately, in fact, it is not the bad thing. On the contrary, it is the good opportunity for them to learn things and communicate with other people. As parents, you should not prevent the conflict when meeting such situation because you will deprive children's complete communication experiences.
If your children are failure in the toys competition, they always feel aggrieved and even cry in front of their parents and teachers. As parents, especially the mother, also feel show pity. However, as parents, you should know that it is not the true failure and it is just the children's interaction experience. They would clearly know that their needs are not always satisfied by other people for the experience. How to get what they want? You should continuously improve the communication skills and compatible with other people. At the same time, if your children are crying, the smart parents should tell their children what should you do if your favorite toys are grabbed by other children? It is the attitude of seeking help if telling to teachers, it is the attitude of self-protection if hold toys tightly in the arms, it is the attitude of getting the sympathetic if crying and it is the tolerant attitude if you don't mind. You should tell children that every solution represents an attitude towards life therefore they should choose by themselves. Only by this way, it is beneficial to adjust their psychological status.
In short, if your children are teased in kindergarten, parents should not be too tense and intervene with their things exceedingly, you just need to give them some appropriate guidance.
by: tony steve
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