subject: How To Solve Toys Robbing Phenomenon Among Children [print this page] Too many parents always complain that their children's toys are often robbed by other children in the kindergarten. And at the same time their children also rob other children's toys if they think the toy is so fun. All in all, according to the children development experts, it is the normal phenomenon in children development process. However, as parents, do you know how to solve such situation with the right way, which are beneficial to children development in the future.
Imagine the first situation, your children's favorite toys are robbed by other children.
I am sure most parents would get the toys back from other children's hands for their own children with impolite way. In fact, it is a wrong idea, which is not only good for yourself, but also not beneficial to your children development. For a long time, the character of your children would become more and more cowardly and are afraid of saying no to other people. What should you do if you are the smart parents? If you are familiar with the children, you can pat his head slightly and say what about I give you the new one. On the other hands, if you are not familiar with the children, you should tell them that it is not polite to rob people's things, if you really want to play the toys, you can play with them together. By this way, it is the way to show your gentle manner and give the feeling to your children that they are protected by their parents.
Imagine the second situation, your children have robbed other children's toys.
When facing such situation, most parents would be anger and say with accusing tone that you should not do this the next time and please quickly return to the children. Is this solution useful? According to the experience, it is really useless to solve such condition because even you talk lots of words to your children, but the toys are still got at their hands and they still have the feeling of satisfaction. Then what should smart parents do? You should grab the toys from your children's hands and return to other children, I am sure your children would cry loudly and not happy. Then you should teach them that the children whose toys have been robbed by you also cried. For one or two times, you children would understand the feeling of lose and would not rob other children things.
by: tony steve
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