subject: Do You Get Anxious When Approaching Women? This May Help You Get Over That Feeling [print this page] It's not uncommon for a guy to get a feeling of being a little bit anxious when he sees a woman that he likes and he is thinking about approaching her. Sometimes that anxious feeling can be a good thing, as it gives you that push that you need to actually make the approach. And sometimes, it can be a bad thing. It can make you feel paralyzed, like you just cannot move even though you really want to.
If you have ever been in a situation where a woman catches your eye when you are out on the town and you've sat there and pondered whether or not you should make the approach - then you know what it is to feel that anxiety about approaching a woman. And if you have ever had a friend that did not seem to feel that way at all, then you know that you can end up feeling envious of the fact that he was able to just go ahead and do it and you are not.
The good thing is... your friend probably did not always feel that way. You want to know why it is a good thing that he probably did not always feel that way?
Because it means that he did something, he learned something that made it so he was able to make cold approaches with ease. And if he can learn to do that, then so can you.
Okay. It may not be as easy as that for you. Some men are more apprehensive than others and that is something to take into account.
Still, that does not mean that you can't get over the anxious feeling to approach a woman or at least learn to use that feeling to drive you forward. For plenty of men, that is the best way to go about dealing with approach anxiety. If they can learn to use that energy to move forward, then they can walk on over to a woman and not allow themselves to feel paralyzed at all.
What holds most men back besides that feeling that they get, is their expectation of being rejected by a woman. That is another thing that you have to get over and you CAN.
Rejection is not a foregone conclusion. It does not have to be the end result.
And even if it is, that does not mean that you are destined to get rejected by every woman that you try to get a date with. What if you knew that for every three women you approached, one would say yes? What would you do?
I know what I would do. I would make sure that I approached three women and got that one that would say yes.
Play the numbers. That's what most men who are successful at approaching women do. They play the numbers and they know that all they have to do is keep moving forward and eventually they will get it right.
It gets easier the more you do it.
If you allow yourself to keep on trying, eventually you begin to feel comfortable approaching women. In fact, you may get to the point where doing that feels more comfortable than just about anything else. If you do get to that point, that is when other men will start to become envious of you as they see you nonchalantly walking over to women that they wished they could get a date with... and you will be the guy that ends up getting the date.
It all comes down to playing the numbers, immersing yourself in the moment, and understanding that you can use the anxious feeling to drive you forward instead of holding you back.
by: Chris Tyler
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