subject: What To Do To Attract Women: Cues From "the Bachelorette" [print this page] Here is a quick tip for you on how to be the man that you want to be with women, how to get the woman that you really want, how to fall in love with her, and how to have her fall in love with you. Now, I have got to tell you, you have got to be willing to face a little bit of joking from your friends in order to do this. Surprisingly, one of the best things that you can do to be better with women is to watch The Bachelorette. I know what you're thinking, "that sounds ridiculous," but the lesson will be worth it.
I've been watching this season, and it's an absolutely fascinating study. You have all of these different personalities and stereotypes. You have the quiet and aloof, the loud and charming, the quirky and awkward, the strong and confidant. Each personality interacts differently with the bachelorette and has different tactics to win her love. However, you can tell which things really work with a quality woman and which things do not. I emphasize quality here. You can tell which guys are aware of their actions and which guys are not. Now, if you want to get really super stellar, then notice how you can find yourself in every one of those characters. It is embarrassing to say, but I can see elements of the most obnoxious characters in myself. But, I think we're all like that; we all have multiple facets.
The point of this exercise is when you are watching this you are seeing how people act. I know that it is reality TV and it is scripted and deliberate, but there is a real element to the emotion. So, notice how people act and what works with her and what does not. And notice also that you can smell out a phony, that even though a guy might say all the right things, have all the pickup lines, and be smooth, it does not work because he is not genuine with his actions. The thing that a woman wants most is authenticity in character and action.
So if you are willing to face a little bit of ridicule, a little bit of joking from your friends, then watch the episodes of The Bachelorette and notice what works. Translate authenticity into your life and into your relationships.
