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He Broke Up With Me, How Do I Get Him Back?

If a girl just got dumped or just got out of a relationship, you will hear her say while crying, "He broke up with me, how do I get him back?" Then her friends would say, "It's okay. You deserve better" or "He's always been such a jerk. There are other guys out there for you." Sound familiar? Of course. That is the typical conversation between friends and a brokenhearted girl.

When a guy breaks up with the girl, the girl always runs to her best friends and tells the whole story. And I mean the whole story with all the details including the place where it happened, the time and the whole conversation. Telling all these details kind of helps the girl feel better because she's trying to let out all her feelings and frustrations. The friends will then comfort their heartbroken friend and tells her everything is okay. Since your bestfriends know all about your relationship, they also how the guy treated their friend so when they hear the girl say, "He broke up with me, how do I get him back?" Usually, the friends will answer the girl with, "You should be the one who broke up with him! He was the one who hurt you first" This situation happens when the guy has always been a jerk to the girl and yet she wants to get him back because he loves him too much. The friends' role would be to convince the girl that she is better off without him but if the girl is insistent, then the friends would eventually support the girl in getting her ex boyfriend back. The friends will then help the girl by giving her tips, like go and be sweet to him again so he can remember all those moments with you. They can also tell the girl to make him jealous by going out with another guy so he knows that there are other guys who likes you. Another advice would be to be aggressive. You can ask him to go on a date with you or go to his favorite places. A simple advice from a friend would be to have a simple conversation with him and ask him what happened.

Friends would always be there to support whatever you want to do but your bestfriends will also be the one to give you the best advice and if they tell you to stop finding ways to get him back, maybe they are right. They are the ones who have heard you talk about how bad he was to you. They heard you cry when he didn't show up for a date and they were there for you when the boyfriend wasn't there. Whether your boyfriend is there or not, your friends will always be there. So if you ask your friends, "He broke up with me, how do I get him back?" and they tell you to snap out of it, maybe you should listen to them.




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