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How to get a girl to like you is the key to any subsequent relationship you may have with her. This article shows you how.
1. Make it easy for girls to like you.
Don't shoot yourself in the foot by making it difficult for any girl to like you. That means keeping yourself in good condition, clean and wholesome.
Make sure you change your clothes regularly, as they can smell stale otherwise. Avoid smells like body odour by using deodorants, and keep away from cheap after-shave lotion. Wash every day and bath or shower at least every other day.
If you have a problem here, or behave in an unacceptable way, e.g. swearing frequently, then don't be surprised if you find it difficult to attract girls.
Okay, you've scored on all these points, but what about your personality and general demeanour? Are you approachable? Do you make people - not just women - feel at ease in your presence? Do you have a sense of humour? Can you make people laugh occasionally, and take a joke yourself?
Are you good at something - anything - that intrigues other people, such as drawing, origami, singing, ice skating, telling jokes or doing magic tricks? Are you good with animals or children? Do you have some characteristic that makes you special?
In short, do you have value to bring to any relationship?
Nearly everyone has something (and I don't mean just knowing how to get girlfriends). You know by now which of your abilities I'm talking about, so work on that and make it especially appealing to the kind of girl you'd like to have as a girlfriend.
A word, now, about the company you keep. Make sure no-one in your regular entourage is ruining your chances of getting any girls interested in you. If you frequently meet up with people who are hangers-on, who themselves either aren't interested in meeting girls or who don't encourage female attention, then this will reflect on you, and you will find it difficult to get a girlfriend.
You may have to be quite ruthless here, and decide between your friendship with such people and your desire to attract a girlfriend.
2. Focus on the specific girl you're trying to attract.
You need to step into overdrive now, and make sure you really sweep her off her feet. But don't expect too much too soon. Just allow a relationship to build naturally.
Resist the urge to be "all over" her in a physical way. Let her know you think she's too special for that. Leave that for her to initiate.
Give her some space. She'll appreciate that. And leave her wanting more each time you see her.
As soon as you can, get to know everything that matters to her. They may include important things, but most likely they'll also include trivial things.
Some of these things will be "girls' things" that men normally aren't interested in, but nevertheless become interested in them yourself, not as an "expert" but as an enthusiastic amateur.
Don't try to impress her with what you can do. Instead, be impressed by what she can do.
That's how to get a girl to like you.
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