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How to Approach Women With Absolute Confidence- 3 Must Know Tricks of the Trade

When it comes to meeting and picking up women, the approach is hands down the most unnerving aspect of the entire encounter. Guys will sit around mulling over when to make their move for such a long time, that they end up avoiding it altogether. Luckily, there are some simple 'tricks of the trade' that you can use to make approaching a woman with confidence come a lot easier for you. When you can approach a woman with absolute confidence, then getting her phone number, or a date is pretty easy.

Approach anxiety is the number one reason why normal, average guys will completely avoid walking up to a woman they don't know and get a conversation started. If you get caught up in this, then it will become almost impossible to get a date unless someone you know hooks you up with a friend or something. So, you have to be able to get the approach part down if you are going to start getting dates right away.

Here are 3 must know tricks of the trade to help you approach women with absolute confidence:

1) Approach the first woman you see without hesitation and without wanting any kind of outcome to happen.

This was one of the first tricks that I learned back when I was first figuring out how to meet and attract women and it works like a charm. IF you walk into a club and approach the first woman you see, and you don't care whether or not she likes you or anything like that, it makes every other approach seem that much easier. Getting the first cold approach out of the way is an easy way to make you more confident about the next one.

2) Always have something ready to speak on after you have opened the conversation.

The opener really is not that hard. A simple what's up can be an opener and that is not that hard to spit out, right? What's hard for most guys is coming up with the next thing to say. That's where the confidence begins to fade out. Always have something in mind already so that your mind is not racing around trying to figure out the right thing to say to her. It will make EVERYTHING that much easier for you.

3) Never hinge your happiness on whether or not a woman you approach likes you.

When you hinge all of your happiness on what someone else says or does, then you will undoubtedly have no confidence at all. When you approach a woman, it should not be in the context that it will make your day happier, more like it will just enrich an already good night for you. That way a woman cannot shake your confidence.




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