subject: What Women Really Want - And How to Be That: The Laws of Attraction, Part 1 [print this page] What Women Really Want - And How to Be That: The Laws of Attraction, Part 1
The laws of attraction are a matter of physics. Very little depends on what we think or want them to be. Like charges repel, and unlike charges attract when it comes to the electrical realm, and when it comes to human attraction, the rules are much the same in that they are not dependent on what we want them to be; they just simply are the rules. Women are subject to these laws of attraction just as an electron is subject to its own set of rules.
When a man approaches a woman, the laws go into effect, and regardless of what either of them believe will happen, they are both subject to these basic instinctive rules. If he presents himself like every other man does, she will be totally unimpressed. An attractive woman is approached all the time with the standard lines, and is very familiar with the "game" that men play to get the girl. If you go about finding a female companion in this way, you had better be very attractive yourself, because you are in her playing field, and she will call the shots. Standard game means that she will decide what is attractive about you, and believe me, generic does not go over well.
You may be wondering, "What can I do to get her attention and cause innate attraction?". It is not rocket science, and with some practice, it is easily done time and time again. Whether you are looking for a date or a life partner, you need to invoke the laws of attraction in order to have a chance of growing the relationship to whatever level it might go to. I say this because later on, the rules change. We will look into that in a later article though. This is all about the initial spark that "chemistry" that causes women that are perfect tens to become unexplainably attracted to regular, everyday men who don't have a fortune. It happens all the time, because when a man has a few qualities that women can't resist, he can be with nearly any woman.
So, what are these qualities, and how do you get them? They are quite simple and not that difficult to invoke and nurture in yourself. Uniqueness, confidence, a sense of humor, and a certain level of indifference are keys to unlocking instinctive attraction and gaining favor with women who have always been "out of your league". Does this sound too simple to be true? Perhaps it does, but the truth is usually much simpler than we think. Let's take a look at these qualities a bit closer, and discuss how to apply them.
Uniqueness is a key element of attraction. You do not want to fall into the category of "just another guy". You want to stand out in her mind above the pack, and this is not very hard to do. First of all, you will need to throw aside your ideas of cool if they are in any way set by the trends. Trendy is not unique. You need to find a style that works for you and exudes your true self. If you are a jeans and t-shirt kind of guy, then wear nice, clean jeans, a tasteful tee solid colors keep her attention on you and not your shirt, and a few small details. Be clean. Wear decent shoes. Wear a blazer. If your style is button up shirts and slacks, wear a nice shirt, good shoes, and for God's sake, avoid pleated slacks. Mostly just take what you normally like and make it respectable and tidy.
Aside from your attire, you should be yourself. You have heard this a million times, but it means more than acting like you are around your "buddies". It means take your sense of humor, your style, your interests, and fine tune them into a clean, well assembled individual. Don't try to look or act like everyone else, but don't be rude, crude or insulting either. As the old axiom goes, "Accentuate the positive" I think you know the rest.
It never hurts to get some input from a woman either. If you are looking for clothes that show off your personal attributes, take a woman who knows you. A friend, sister, or other relative is a good choice. Just find someone with a good sense of style, as style breeds style, and uncouth just breeds more uncouth. Once you find your own look, begin working on your conversational identity. Talk to women. Get comfortable around them so that you don't say foolish or crude things. Listen to their input. You don't want to alienate people here; you are trying to use your true self to attract. This may be a new concept, but it is possible if you want it.
That is enough for this particular article. We will look at confidence in the next installment, and what that means. There is a big difference between being sure of yourself and being a conceited ass. We will look at some ways in which you can build your self-confidence and get women to notice you by being worth noticing. In the mean time, Work on finding your true self and making him stand out in a good way.
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