subject: After A Break Up What To Do Next? [print this page] After A Break Up What To Do Next?
"If you love something, set it free. If it comes back, it's ours, if it doesn't, it never was."
There's a very distinct truth in the quote above. Almost everyone who's lucky to have been in love has experienced the pain of getting into a break up.
The problem is that most people go into depression and suffer harshly after they are left by their loved ones. It's understandable. I myself would rather have my feet amputated than lose my partner. The pain is immense.
However, if it's happened already what do you do?
Before you do something harsh or worse, something that will show you're needy, stop and think about one thing first. Do you want to get back with him/her?
If you answer no, then it's good. All you have to do is to find a way to get the painful experience out of your mind and try not to go into depression. But if you still want to get back with your ex. Then it will take a bit more of an effort and a lot of finesse to make them realize how lucky they are for having you in their lives.
Honestly, the reason why you've been together is because once in your relationship you both found out that you love each other. Although some troubles and circumstances might have led you to a break up, it doesn't mean that the love both of you felt for each other is now completely gone.
However, there are wrong and right ways to get your ex back. Do the wrong things and you'll end up pushing them away.
Doing the right things will attract them back to you like a bee to a flower. But contrary to what you may think, being clingy, needy, and crawling back to your ex won't help. It will just degrade you and like what I said earlier, can push them further away.
The best thing you can do to get them is to work on yourself first. Gain back your confidence, and then follow a covert approach to get them back which will be discussed in the accompanying book listed below.
The book will take you step by step on what to do. When to make the first contact, how long, how to behave and what to do to "entice" your ex back.
The series of steps in the book will have your ex thinking they've just made the biggest mistake in their lives for letting you go. It will teach you about timing, behavior, dialogues, and a new total way to conduct yourself for maximum effectiveness. Your ex would remember why they fell in love with you the first time.
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