subject: I'm Dating a Divorced Man [print this page] I'm Dating a Divorced Man I'm Dating a Divorced Man
You've met a great guy, you are having a good time getting to know him and everything seems to be going just the way that you want it to. There's only one catch though- he's divorced. If this is your first time dating a divorced guy and it kind of makes you a little worried, keep reading. It's only natural that you would feel this way if you have never dated a divorced guy before, but that should not put you off to giving him a chance if everything else is going great. Divorce is pretty common now, and chances are... most women will at one time or another end up dating a divorced man.
There are some things that probably are going to pop into your head, some questions that you may want to resolve about dating a guy who has been divorced. You might get nervous that maybe there is something wrong with him, something that you are not yet seeing and that you don't want to end up getting hurt by having a relationship with him. Or, maybe the reason why he got divorced causes some alarm. Whatever it is, just know that divorce is pretty common and it does not mean that the guy you are seeing is not worthy of giving a chance.
Here are some tips to help you out if you are dating a divorced man:
1. You don't have to tell anyone that he has been divorced if you don't want to.
It might worry you a bit about telling your friends or family about the guy you are seeing and then mentioning that he has been married before. Well, that really does not have to be anyone's business, does it? Just because you know this about him, it does not mean that you have any reason to tell anyone else. People can be judgmental about these kinds of things and they may not give him a chance to prove himself.
2. You have to get over the idea that he has a past that you are not a part of.
You have a past that he was never a part of until you met him and so does he. There is no reason to worry about this or feel weird about it. It's just the way that it is. Sometimes a woman will worry that maybe he is still in love with his ex wife, but chances are... that is not the case. And even if he does have some lingering feelings for her, after a while they will go away and he will only be thinking about You.
3. One thing you already know about him is that he was at least willing to try out a committed relationship.
With so many women complaining about guys running away from commitment, one thing that you know about a divorced guy is that he was willing to try it out. That can be a good thing. Of course, it could also mean that he does not want to do that again, but that is something that can change when he gets to know you and falls for you.
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