subject: Things Women Hate About Men – Their Ability to Commit [print this page] Things Women Hate About Men Their Ability to Commit
Commitment - that one word that both men and women fear. Well, mostly men. Why do some men hate it? Why do women hate that men can't commit? Will a relationship really work if both parties won't commit? Some men actually shiver, literally and figuratively, at the mention of the word commitment. But why? Then women start to ask why men even initiate a relationship if they can't commit to it.
Why do men hate commitment?
Not all men hate it. Sometimes, men are the ones who initiate that you both start dating exclusively. There is a multitude of answers to that question however. Here's a few:
- He's not the type to commit because he either doesn't believe in commitments or it's not his priority.
- He has the can't hold me down attitude' going on. He wants to be the boss of himself. Forever.
- He believes it's a lot of work and doesn't want to get caught up in all of it.
- He's just a plain old player.
It could be one of these or all. There could be other reasons but men are simple. If we don't want it, we really mean we don't want it.
Why do women hate that about men?
Men, listen, women invest a lot more in relationships than you think. Just think about this: women decide for hours on what to wear on a date, what she will drink during the date & so on and so forth. If you've asked them out a week before the actual date, they've probably been thinking about that 8pm dinner date as soon as they got home the day you asked them out. If you can't reciprocate all that effort, don't lure women into thinking you're a keeper and start building that relationship. She's probably better off with someone else than with you who keeps her guessing on how long your relationship will last. Don't ask why they hate that their man can't commit; she's put a lot into your relationship than you might think.
No commitment relationships do they work?
No. As I've said, commitment comes in all forms. If by commitment you mean getting married, some relationships last without the "I do's," but for a relationship to work without any sort of commitment is impossible. With a relationship comes commitment, so some aspects will require you to commit to a scheduled agreement may it be as simple as taking out the trash or calling her to let her know about your whereabouts.
Commitment can mean a lot of things such as committing to one person aka loyalty or committing to one goal of a relationship. Tips for the ladies, before you ask your man to commit to you, know the signs that you are in a committable relationship, i.e. are you committable? Do you always fight about other women? Can you trust him to go out of town with just the boys? Do you keep catching him lying to you about where he spent the night? Do not pressure us to spend the rest of our lives with you. If we feel it, we'll show you and who knows, maybe we'll pop that question. Sometimes committing scares the heck out of men. If the relationship is fresh and new and exciting, enjoy it. Don't push your man into levelling with your emotions because we think differently. Let things fall into their proper order. Tips for the men: make your goals of initiating a relationship with someone known from the beginning. Don't keep them believing you're going to stay together forever. Relationships are hard work. Keeping the boat afloat takes time, effort, understanding, trust, loyalty and yes, love. All these are needed to keep the ship floating and it takes commitment to keep it running.
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