subject: Cheating Women - Why Women Sometimes Have Commitment Phobia [print this page] Cheating Women - Why Women Sometimes Have Commitment Phobia
Women cheat for a multitude of reasons, just like men do.
Although it isn't often spoken about, many times a woman being unfaithful boils down to a fear of commitment, or the man's behavior will make her less inclined towards committing to him.
Women get cold feet at the altar, just like men do. Often they feel pressured into maintaining a relationship with a man when that is the last thing in the world they want. This is especially true - but not exclusive to - cultures where arranged marriages are the norm. In the modern western world, a woman can still feel forced into a relationship due to family expectations, promises of future reward (wealth) or a host of other factors. However, we will deal here with infidelity in women in western cultures.
Let's briefly look at five of the major reasons why women cheat on their men.
1. Lack of physical attention
It's a fact of life - women want and need sex just like men do. However, when the husband is incapable of satisfying his woman, it will not be long before another man's shoes are under the bed. The causes of a man's low sex drive and poor performance may vary, however if untreated, his wife will not accept this. Naturally, she will be less inclined to commit to you as a man if you cannot get things working in the bedroom.
2. Other physical factors
Sometimes, a man may simply be a slob. Failing to shower or maintain adequate standards of personal hygiene will make any woman think twice about committing to a lifetime of living with such a man. There could be other factors as well. It has been reported by some women that even extremely poor kissing technique has led them to cheat on their husbands and boyfriends. This may seem shallow, but so are some women.
3. Revenge
This reason for cheating by girlfriends and wives is the most understandable and forgivable. He cheats - she cheats.
4. Psychological abuse
If a woman is constantly belittled and mentally abused by her man, this often culminates in her leaving him for another man who will treat her with respect. If the abuse escalates to physical assaults, then cheating by the wife will also fall into a kind of "revenge" scenario. No woman who is capable of rational thought will commit themselves to a man who fits into this category.
5. Boredom
If a woman finds that she is bored with her boyfriend, she will be more inclined to a wandering eye, and this often takes the next logical step to sex with other men. If she finds there is a lack of excitement in her current relationship, she will go looking for so-called bad boys who exude risk and excitement.
All of the above are cited regularly in scientific studies about a women's infidelity. In many cases, relationships are doomed to failure because of a lack of compatibility. Therefore, trying to force commitment from either party may be a complete waste of time, and perhaps even dangerous.
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