subject: The Number 1 Reason Men Disappear [print this page] The Number 1 Reason Men Disappear The Number 1 Reason Men Disappear
When you say things are great, are you sure your definition of going great matches his. So many times we read more into it than is really there. So you have a great relationship. Maybe he saw it differently. Maybe he thought of it as a great few dates. Who knows? One thing though, a man in a real relationship will not disappear. It was real to you, but how real was it to him?
How could you have been so wrong? Women often make the mistake of assuming the girlfriend role too soon. We see him everytime he asks. We start seeing or trying to see him as often as possible. Some women go so far as to start seeing a man everyday in the first few weeks of dating, moving in together within months. This forward pattern with no resistance is the #1 reason men disappear.
There is no challenge. You are giving the farm away too soon. A man needs a little resistance, maybe a good bit of resistance to stick around and form attachment. Sounds crazy, but take away the challenge, you take away his fun. Slow him down, don't be so available. Stay home and wash your hair, anything, but don't see him every day or every single time he asks. He will sense you are jumping through hoops for him and his attraction will fade sooner rather than later. Men disappear when the party is over if they have not been allowed to attach to you.
If you are around all the time, he will not attach. Men disappear more times than not in this case. A man has to think about you to form attachment and to think about you he needs space to miss you, meaning he can't if you are always there.
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