subject: My Wife Has Left Me for someone else, how do i get her back [print this page] My Wife Has Left Me for someone else, how do i get her back
So your wife has left you for someone else, how do you get her back. You pull out all stops and romance her back to you. Ask yourself..."What attracted you to her? Was it her smile, voice, figure? Get a pen and paper, write down all the things you did together, where you went, what you did etc, then sit back and think about your list. You have to get ahead of this person she is with and show her why she should be with you; not the person she is with.
The next thing you need to do is get your self in the right frame of mind emotionally, so you are strong enough to handle what has happened. When you have shared a marriage and perhaps had children then it is not something that you will get over very quickly. There are memories and personal items you may have bought together which remind you of her.
To bring yourself back into line go to the gym or go for walks, spend time with good friends so that your mind is not on your wife leaving you and being with another person. Don't make contact with her either until you are strong enough to handle things emotionally because you don't want thereto be a screaming match between you both. You need to take things calmly and try to not stress about it.
Another thing you need to do is to ask yourself if you want her back, she might even be really happy with this other person. This person maybe giving her, what you could not which is why your marriage broke up. Marriage counselling is another area you could perhaps look at.
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