subject: If Merely She Smiled (Asian and Online Dating Advise) [print this page] If Merely She Smiled (Asian and Online Dating Advise)
I'm surprised how some lady members submit pictures with a stoic face expecting male members to cozy up to their profile. Smile, ladies, smile!
Many male members are searching for warmth and comfort in their pursuit for a proper partner. The impression an image can give is paramount in persuading the male member to read further the lady's profile. If the image does not display warmth or comfort, they won't go any further than the image and click away. Time after time, I have noticed an image of a lady who smiles get more profile views than an image with no smile. The smile opens the door for men to look at the lady's profile yet so many ladies keep the door closed with no expression or emotion on their face.
I don't want to solely pick on ladies' images, but for factors I'm not sure of, my stats shows that lady members will look at a male profile that has an image with or without a smile. While male members almost always lean towards a smiling face when browsing profiles. Maybe gender stereotype is in play - men are suppose to look more stern than ladies so a man smiling or not smiling is not as big of a factor in how his character is perceived. I'm not sure, but after eight years of running an Asian dating site I can say to you the stats for profile views for a smiling lady versus a non-smiling lady image is overwhelming in favor of the smiling face. So ladies, smile!
In any given day, I get more than my share of emails from members asking me for advise. The first thing I look at is their profile picture. If it doesn't show warmth, I tell them to change their profile image. After the smile, clothes and accessories can be a issue in how a member will react to your profile. Even a smiling face wearing sunglasses turns numerous members away. They say your eyes are the windows to your soul and if they can't appreciate the expression in your eyes, they may believe you are hiding something. Don't wear sunglasses.
Another accessory that may be a factor is ear rings, particularly on an Asian dating site. If a lady is wearing gigantic ear rings, most men will not respond favorably. I'm not sure if this is the situation on non-Asian sites, but most male members of an Asian dating site are searching for simplicity and huge garish ear rings convey the opposite of simplicity. Small and eloquent ear rings seem to get more responses by men.
The clothes can attract as much versatility as there are women. A man hoping for a sexy lady is going to take his clue from the clothes she wears. The same for a man who is hoping for a homebody. I think the main blunder women make is overdoing it with sexy clothes. There is a fine line between looking sexy and looking the part of a street girl. I have seen more than one male member remark that he was looking for a wife, not a call girl.
Ladies, your profile image is the door way to welcoming men to explore your profile. If your profile is not getting a lot of views, you might want to take a look at your profile image to see if it is opening or closing the door.
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