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He Stopped Emailing Me Why Men Do This and How to Change It

"He stopped emailing me, what do I do now?" In this technology driven age we live in, that's a very common dating question. Many of us communicate with the man in our lives via text or email. It's convenient, discreet and leaves us with a lasting tangible account of all the things we've talked about. But what happens if that communication suddenly stops? What if he isn't answering your emails anymore and isn't responding when you text or call him?

There are a few reasons why he may have stopped emailing you. One is that he actually has gotten very busy. Although men tend to use work as an excuse when their interest in a woman starts to falter, don't jump to that conclusion straight away. He may actually be buried beneath work. If you think this is the case, give him a quick call to see how work is going. You'll be able to tell from the sound of his voice whether he's feeling overwhelmed by it.

Another more common reason why men stop emailing is they are testing you. Men are very much like us in that they want to know what's going on with your heart. He wants to gauge your interest level and what better way to do that than to test it? He may have suddenly stopped emailing you just to see how you react. You may find this a bit manipulative but in the dating world, almost anything is fair.

If you do believe that he is indeed testing you to see if you're as into him as he is into you, be careful how you proceed. If you get too upset over the fact that he's stopped emailing you, he'll be taken back by that and won't find you so appealing after all. Too strong of a reaction suggests that you fell for him too fast. In his mind, if you're that crazy about him so soon, you're likely feeling those same things with every guy you date. That's just not appealing to any man.

On the other hand, if he stopped emailing or texting you and you don't react at all, that sends another entirely different message to him. That reaction suggests that you're interested, but not to the point of being obsessed with him. He'll start to worry a bit about whether you're going to chase after him and if you don't, he'll not only start emailing again, but he'll be calling more frequently too.




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