subject: Im Losing My Girl! - How to Make Sure You Keep Her [print this page] Im Losing My Girl! - How to Make Sure You Keep Her
Do you feel like your losing your girl? Does it feel that no matter what you do she just seems to drift further away? Don't despair, there are a few subtle but effective things you can do to help bring her back to you.
It's a heart breaking and frustrating place to be when your girl seems to be getting more and more distant. Nothing seems to work, all your efforts just fall flat. If anything, the harder you try the worse the situation gets. If you want to mend your relationship and bring your girl back, the first thing you must do is ease the pressure on the situation, this means if she has requested some space, give her what she wants. Trying to force a reconciliation never works. There is something called the "push and pull" effect in relationships; the more you push the bigger the rift, get it right and you will pull her towards you.
Women give many reasons for wanting out of a relationship, but regardless of the circumstances between you and your girl, the reason most woman want out is appreciation. Women need to feel appreciated for their efforts, right down to the tiny details. She needs to know that you take notice of her and the things she does. If she does not get this, she will look for the appreciation elsewhere.
If you feel that you are losing your girl, and nothing you are doing at the moment is working, it is time to do the exact opposite. If you are stressed, emotional or irritable this is a "push", being the opposite is a "pull". Don't force any relationship issues, and don't over do it, but try and react in the opposite of what you normally would, as this is what is pushing her away. At first you probably wont get much of a reaction, but if you keep it up you are guaranteed to pull her towards you.
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