subject: What You Must Do To Finally Get Her Back [print this page] The first thing to do when your wife or girlfriend has rejected you is the opposite of what you probably feel like doing. Normally, when you find yourself rejected painfully by your former lover, you might become obsessed with winning her affections immediately. But to start immediately pursuing her again, has very little chance of success.
If you want to succeed at getting her back for good, you must absolutely learn to practice a little patience and restraint. The very last thing you probably want to hear right now, if this is your situation, is to play it cool, but that is what will give you the very best chance of winning her affections once again.
As odd as this might sound to you right now, one of the best things for you to do is to learn to meditate, to calm and heal your mind and emotions so that you no longer feel as compelled to act out of desperation. One of the best strategic advantages you can give yourself is to learn to control your emotional and mental states, and it has some great side effects.
It is not only a great way of giving yourself the best chance to succeed in your goal, but if you take it seriously and do it for just 20 minutes, twice a day, you will actually begin to feel a lot less intensely lonely.
Part of our strategy here is to go beyond just giving you the best chance of winning her back, by helping you become the man who can keep her affections in the long run. Another way to put it, is that I'm assuming you are looking to get her back for the long term, rather than just hoping for a night of passion.
One of the surest and healthiest ways to deal effectively with loss is to work on yourself. Become more accepting, kinder, more upbeat, more active. You could take this opportunity to help the hungry, or learn a new skill, rekindle a forgotten hobby, and do whatever brings you better feelings about yourself as a whole person, rather than half of a couple. This doesnt mean you wont be in a couple again, but that you will bring wholeness to it when you are ready, thus giving the relationship the best possible chance of being happy, healthy, and lasting.
by: Greg Vinson
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