subject: Ex With Another Guy? - What to Do If You Want Her Back [print this page] Ex With Another Guy? - What to Do If You Want Her Back
If you still have feelings for your ex, its heart breaking to see her with another guy. If you want her back, and you can bear the initial pain of seeing her with someone else, following a few simple rules will stand you a very good chance of getting her back.
Seeing her with someone else is one of the the most painful things to have to deal with after a relationship breakdown. To all intents and purposes it looks like she has forgotten you already and moved on. The truth is, what you are witnessing is a rebound relationship. After splitting from a long term partner many women will feel an overwhelming need to fill the void where you once were with a distraction. More often than not, a distraction is all that he is. Most women will not want anything serious after a long term relationship, and will more likely just want some company and someone to talk to, nothing more than that. Take comfort in the fact that almost 97% of rebound relationships don't work out.
If you want her back, its important to remember a few simple rules.
#1 It will be hard, but do not lose your cool, especially in front of your ex and her new man. If your ex sees you, she is likely to react in one of two different ways; awkward and embarrassed when she sees you, or an over the top display of affection towards her date. Regardless of which scenario you find yourself in, how you conduct yourself in either situation is very important. The temptation to leave immediately is almost always the case, but you must stay and stand your ground. Do not ignore your ex, but also do not run over to introduce yourself as her ex either. Smile, be pleasant and polite, ask how she is, but keep it short, and do not mention her date. If you are with friends carry on as you were and do not look in her direction again. Its important to remain calm, and appear unfazed by the situation.
#2 If you follow this simple guideline, and present a calm and collected demeanour whenever you encounter your ex, more often than not your ex will be curious to gage your feelings about the "new man". Its highly likely that after no reaction from you, that you receive an out of blue phone call or have a "chance" meeting with your ex. If you find yourself in the situation where your ex is trying to find out how you feel, however fague it may seem, its a surefire sign that she still has feelings for you.
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