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When it comes to being attractive to women, everything is based on the decisions the guy makes.With that in mind, your current level of attractiveness is based on your PAST decisions (what you did + what you said). Everything a guy does gets processed in her mind. Shortly after the processing, a resulting peception is formed.She'll either end up finding him to be more desirable or more undesirable.It may a little awkward at first to express it in this way, but it's a good to see the path from "decision" to "perception" for the sake of improving.So if your current perception is undesirable, then there's no need to panic. It just means there is an opportunuty for you to do things differently (make different decisions).If you make BETTER DECISIONS (based on what you do + what you say) in the future, it's going to lead to a BETTER PERCEPTION.Let's discuss three easy methods for increasing your sexual value.Tip #1: Being Passionate About Something.This tactic is under-rated and it works best when there is a healthy amount of existing admiration.The idea is to be passionate about something. It could be model cars. It could be snakes. It could be anything. When you demonstrate that you're passionate, it shows that you're alive.You end projecting a power set of signals.You don't really need her to enjoy the activity. You also don't need to look for a reaction that tells you that it worked. The idea is to trust the process.Have a conversation with her about something you're passionate about. Again, this works best when she is somewhat attracted to you.Tip #2: Being Determined.Let's say you mention to your wife/girlfriend about your interest in a particular job, but shortly after that, you appear indifferent about it.There is a good chance that you're desirability will decrease on a some level that she won't even be able to detect.Especially if this is an ongoing pattern. Women are responsive to guys who go after what they want. Taking the 'if it happens, it happens' approach to life comes off as weak.That ranks up there with trying to get a woman to feel sorry for you where there's an illusion of success based on her short-term reaction, but in the background, she can't explain why the attraction is fading away.When it comes to being determined, even if it's something that doesn't affect her directly, the fact that you are hard-pressed to get what you want works in your favor. By the way, each one of these items are instant tactics to increase short term sexual value.You see, whenever you are attempting to get her in the mood, it's always a good idea to do a little something to charge-up your "short term sexual value" (see crjames.com). So a simple 10 minute conversation about how you are determined to accomplish some sort of goal is enough to spike your "short term sexual value".The trick is to project a strong sense of expectation, as if you know for a fact it's going to happen.It may help to have conversations about times when you pulled off the impossible, beforehand.Tip #3: Being an individual.This is about being yourself and not being concerned about what others think. As a special tip: You want to always think of ways to become more comfortable (and happy) about being you.Doing that, allows you to project a real signal - as opposed to "faking it".In the book, Super Seduction Power, the readers are told to make a list of every single thing you've done that that made you proud of yourself. In addition to that, you can write out all the memories of when you were "The Man" in the eyes of a particular woman. Write out a list of traits that make you unique and special.Then, look at these lists as often as possible throughout the day. If you done a good job creating the list, you will feel yourself getting pumped up.After awhile, you'll began to feel that way naturally without reading the lists.You see, the problem is too many guys want women to see them as being massively desirable, yet the guy isn't capable of seeing himself in that way.That never works.So that's part of what I mean by being an individual.That also means you can't be jealous of another guy, which is a clue that you're not comfortable with yourself.Extreme Confidence = Extreme Self-Comfort.When you're extremely comfortable with being you (on every level imaginable) it sends off a signal that women can smell miles away (not literally).So just start with remembering all of the interesting accomplishments you've achieved until you start feeling amazing about yourself.The other cool thing is, YOU get to determine what's interesting/impressive. Remember past successes with anything (women, job, school, hobby, etc.).In conclusion, being desirable is all about making strategic decisions that predictably control how you are perceived. Failing to increase your sexual value is one of the biggest seduction mistakes you can make.CR James is a Sexual Relationship Strategist and creator of: Super Seduction Power [http://SuperSeductionPower.com/the8tips] - a downloadable report that teaches the 8 SSP secrets for getting your wife to crave sex. So you'll know how to seduce you wife the lazy way.
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