subject: Mysteriousness [print this page] People are attracted to mystery and this makes many people want to find someone that is mysterious to date. If you are looking for a person that is mysterious, you most likely will fall in the majority rather than the minority category.
Mystery is a challenge and perhaps a huge part of the reason, many people actually prefer someone that is more mysterious than someone that is not. This can be quite a good way to have a relationship and can increase the desire to be with someone that is mysterious.
Many people claim to meet someone when they least expect it and part of the reason for this may be contributed to the fact, they are just along with their own daily life and fail to set around and wait for someone. It is much better to appear busy, especially when it comes to relationships and this in a sense may make you look mysterious as well.
Listed below are some tips to help you look mysterious:
At work or among friends, keep your opinion to yourself.
Always keep something back, when you are telling tales.
Don't tell others of your plans.
Do not phone people.
Don't hurry to return calls.
Keep your private life private.
Don't be easy to get in touch with.
Keep others guessing.
Don't reply to emails on Sat. and Sun.
If you are with a dating site, dont make contact on weekends.
Be busy.
Break plans without disclosing information.
Never discuss past lovers.
Use an evasive smile at times.
Mention you were with 'some people' but say little else on the subject when relating a tale
Let people look for you, not you them.
Have different groups of friends.
To be highly effective, you may want to seem very elusive.
It can take time to become as mysterious and youd like to be to others and some practice as well. When you are always used to be at someones beck and call, it can be very difficult to turn it around and never be available.
So, take the time you need to become a mysterious as you would like to be and convey this to others.
Once you begin to invest the time you need into becoming mysterious, you may find that it is not as hard as you had thought it would be and you can appear very mysterious to people in a short period of time.
by: Andrew D.
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