subject: Did You Realize? Before You Get Your Husband Back You Need To Get Over Him [print this page] One step in getting your husband back that a lot of women dont realize is that you actually have to get over your husband before you can get him back. It sounds a bit strange, but it is actually the truth. You need to let go of all the feelings and attachments you have so that if you get back together you can then start from scratch with no expectations. I needs to be as if you were meeting for the first time again.
Some ideas which might help you get over your husband.
1. Try and remove anything which reminds you of him. This will be very hard, if you are living in a house you shared. A lot of women are left with the realisation that my husband left me and now I have all of these things which remind me of him Rather than taking everything away just remove the items which have the strongest memories. Place them in a box (if they are not too big) in your cupboard. That way you will not have the constant reminder of him staring you in the face.
2. Try not to associate him with music, movies and television shows. Of course you will have some which have major milestones in your life together, but you cannot associate every little song or show just because you know he liked it. You have to remove these associations from your mind so you will not sit and dwell and think about him all the time.
3. Rather than concentrating on all of the good times that you had together you need to start focusing on some of the bad times with your husband. Focusing on the bad will make you realise that he is not the perfect person your emotions are telling you he is. No one is perfect and everyone has some faults. Focus on his faults and it will make it easier for you to get over him.
4. Go out dating. This is one of the hardest ones that a woman can do. You will have thoughts running through your head like My husband left me but I still love him. Thats OK and you may not be ready for another man to replace him, but at least getting out there will show you that there ARE other men who do compare to him. It will also get you out of the house. You will have some fun in the process.
If you get over your husband you will have more of a chance at repairing your relationship. He will realise that you are not totally dependent on him and that you can exist without him. It might even make him realise that he does want to be the person you depend on again.
by: Laura Milczarek
welcome to Insurances.net (https://www.insurances.net)
