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How to Approach Women With Confidence - Tricks to Boost Your Confidence Around Women

If you are like most guys, then you have probably heard it till you are tired of hearing it. Women are attracted to men that have confidence. That is said to be one of the big "secrets" of attracting women. The problem is, no one really tells you how to gain confidence, especially when you want to approach a woman. Are there any tricks or techniques that can help you confidently walk up to a woman and start a conversation or get her phone number?

Here's a few tricks that should help you boost your confidence with women:

1. Approach the first women you see and expect to get shot down.

This is something that worked very well for me when I first started to get this part of my life mastered. Any time that I want to a club, I would immediately approach the first woman that I saw and expected to get shot down. the point for me was not to get a date with her, get a number, or anything else. It was about getting that first rejection done and over with. Of course, sometimes it would not end in a rejection and when that happened it was just a pleasant surprise. Point is, when you get that first rejection out of the way and the first approach handled, the rest of the night becomes a LOT easier and you can relax a little more.

2. Start a boring and bland conversation and turn it up midway through it.

This was a trick I would use when I was out at a mall, a store, or any other public place not known for the pickup. I would start a conversation with a woman that was totally bland and nothing at all close to being a pick up and then midway through when I had become comfortable talking to her, then I would turn it up a notch and head in the direction of trying to build some attraction and some sparks with her. This helps to get you used to making approaches outside of clubs, and just used to talking to as many women as possible without pressuring yourself to get a date or a number.

3. Get a group of female friends and hit the club with them.

This isn't just good for boosting your confidence with women, it is also good for picking up on little insights about women and getting attention from OTHER women in the club when they see you with a group of females. Here is why it is good for your confidence. If they really are just friends to you, they will kind of give you clues about the signs women give off when they are attracted to you, and they can push you in the direction of women that you can get. Plus, women love to give their guy friends little pep talks, and who can beat that?




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