subject: Getting Her Back - Stop Wringing Your Hands And Just Get Her Back [print this page] So she broke up with you and youve made things worse with every attempt at getting her back. Everything that you do ends in disaster and you are worse off now than you were when you initially broke up. What are you going to do? How can you get her back before she is completely done with you and moves on with another guy?
The truth is that most of the tricks and plans that guys come up with to get their ex back only make things worse. Sure, there is something to be said for actually doing something but there are times when doing nothing is better than messing things up and driving your ex even further away. The problem is that right now you are so desperate to get her back that this desperation keeps on from thinking straight and you wind up doing stupid things that make you appear weak and needy.
Being Nice Being nice is at the top of the list of things that most guys try to get their ex back. They might buy their girl flowers or some other sort of gift. They might call their ex to check on her or tell her that they still love her. They might even write letters apologizing for everything that they did wrong and even promise to change and that things would be different if they could just have another chance.
This is the ultimate weenie move and it oozes of desperation and will only kill the little bit of admiration that your ex has for you if you try any of these tactics. After all, she dumped you. What kind of person is nice to someone that rejects them? You only come off as weak, needy and in desperate need of love and validation. So, if you are thinking of any of these tactics just forget about it.
Making Her Jealous Trying to make your ex jealous is another one of the great tactics that is bound to make you whack yourself in the head and wonder what you were thinking. Attempting to make her jealous and thus change her mind about the breakup actually usually pushes her into the arms of another man, of which there is probably at least one or more that is just chomping at the bit for her to be completely done with you.
The problem with trying to make a woman jealous is that you are so transparent and your motives are so evident that she will probably find great joy in wishing you well and letting you know that she has found someone else anyhow. She might even call your bluff and tell you that she was thinking of getting back together with you just to rub salt in the wound. Hows that going to feel? Not very good, I assume.
The only way to get a woman to change her mind is to appeal to her emotions. As you know, most women are driven by their emotions and they will make a decision based upon how they feel over logic any day of the week. Moving a woman emotionally can be very easy if you know what to do and say but most guys lack the ability to do so consciously.
Sure, you know how to move her emotionally in a negative way. You know what to do and say to get her angry, upset and have her throwing everything that reminds her of you out the door, but do you know how to move her emotionally in a positive way? Do you know how to tweak her emotions so she realizes that you are the man of her dreams and have her come running back to you begging you for another chance? It may sound a little far fetched because youre in the dog house in a big way these days but think about it. If a movie can make her cry dont you think that moving her emotionally in real life can make her change her mind and help you to get her back?
by: Cory Jean
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