subject: How To Date Younger Women - Pickup Artist Secrets [print this page] The majority of men would rather be dating younger women. The reality is, as men, we're hard-wired to want to hook up with gorgeous younger women -- and younger women are, in fact, hard-wired to prefer relationships with older men.
Most guys, however, are clueless about the actual process of how to meet and how to date younger women. The challenge for most guys is that once they hit a certain age, they start to believe they're simply too old, or not "cool" enough, to flirt with younger women and seduce them.
So let me share some tips with you about using body language to flirt, since this is very important when you are trying to build a sexual connection with a younger woman.
Usually, a successful seduction begins with eye contact. Making eye contact with her in a confident way, and flashing her a playful smile, is the best way to create an "instant" connection with her.
"The eyes are the window to the soul," as they say, and this mode of contact can be as powerful as touch. Then, as the conversation begins and you keep it flowing in the right direction, you've got to begin escalating in a physical way.
In essence, this means you touch her and use flirtatious body language. None of this touching is going to happen in an aggressive way; in fact, when you do it right, she won't even consciously notice that you're making body contact with her.
But on a deeper subsconsious level, she will start to feel physically comfortable with you and your touch.
Think about this situation, which virtually every guy has experienced...
You take a girl out on a date, and you have a pleasant time with her. It seems to be going fine. But in the back of your mind, you're wondering about how tonight is going to end.
When you walk her to her car... or when you drop her off at her house...are you going to try to kiss her?
So, in most cases, the night will end with a handshake, or a hug, or you will awkwardly kiss her on the cheek -- as she pulls away.
Or about this scenario? You bring a girl to see a movie, and when you sit down, you want to put your arm around her... or snuggle up close to her...but you don't want her to feel weird or uncomfortable. So for the next two hours, you don't touch her... and the whole time, you are wishing that you could be.
The way to solve these challenges is to lay a foundation of body contact.
Whenever you use the power of touch with a woman in the right way, it's a slow, natural progression -- and remember, you have to initiate it.
She'll feel "ready" to hold hands with her...give you the first kiss...and ultimately sleep with you...if you slowly ESCALATE and build body contact in a subtle way. Basically, you want her to feel comfortable with your touch. In a sense, you're using body language flirting to "warm her up"...
So how do you accomplish this? Here are a few ways:
How To Date Younger Women, Tip #1: When you're talking to her, when she says something funny, or something that you really agree with, give her a "high-five." Don't slap her hand (like you would do with your buddies). Put your hand up, she puts her hand up, and then you gently clasp her hand -- intertwine your fingers with hers -- and hold it for a couple of seconds before letting go.
It should feel totally natural -- consciously, she shouldn't even notice that you just made physical contact.
Likewise, when you want to emphasize something you are telling her, you can reach over and place your hand on her forearm, or on her hand, for a few seconds. This is just going to be a light touch. Then, slowly move your hand away.
How To Date Younger Women, Tip #2: If you're sitting down with her on a couch, instead of touching her hand,you can touch her knee for a moment. Maintain eye contact with her. She won't consciously think about you lightly touching her knee, because she is busy listening to what you are saying...but it will register with her.
How To Date Younger Women, Tip #3: Or, when you are holding the door open for her -- guiding her into the passenger seat in your car, or through the door to the restaurant or bar -- simply place your hand on the small of her back (gently) and subtly guide her through the door.
Her brain will pick up this signal: that you're a strong, masculine presence who is there to provide safety and security. In other words, she senses that she is with a MAN. You're not a nervous, harmless "nice guy" who avoids physical contact.
You can increase the frequency and duration of your touches as the conversation continue to flow. Your touches can become more frequent and intimate.
A little later, you might reach and gently brush the hair out of her eyes...and this won't feel unnatural to her. She will welcome your touch.
And it won't feel unnatural for you to lean in very close and whisper in her ear when you have something "private" to tell her. This can really give a girl goose bumps... in a good way;)
These steps are laying the groundwork for you to kiss her. After I've done all the steps above, I like to give her a gentle kiss on the cheek after I've just said something in her ear.
Then, I return to whatever we were talking about.. I don't make a "big deal" out of that kiss. That contact felt like part of a natural progression.
This is the essence of using body language and touch to build a sexual connection with a younger woman. Ultimately, you're going to make her feel comfortable being with you in every sense...but only if you lay this foundation.
Now, while this subtle body contact is occurring, the other crucial tactic is to use "Strategic Conversation" to drive up her interest and attraction...
How To Date Younger Women - Pickup Artist Secrets
By: dean
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