subject: Steps To Have A Stress- Free Wedding [print this page] Marriage, the most important and auspicious day of ones life is also taken as the day, in which a person goes through various tensions and problems. Brides and grooms are worried about their looks, while the family members are tensed about the wedding preparations and expenses related to the wedding arrangements. No doubt, wedding is an occasion, which brings with itself a lot of tensions and head- off moments, but the bride and groom and both of their families, also need to enjoy each and every moment, because it is an occasion of life time. Its moments are meant to be enjoyed by the relatives and guests to the fullest. To make sure that the wedding ceremony goes without any faults and flaws in it, and to ensure a tension free environment on the wedding day, following are some of the points, which should be kept in mind:
The materials, fruits and things required for the different pujas to be performed at various occasions should be ordered well in time, generally few days before the puja.
The invitation for the wedding and other ceremonies like engagement, shagun, mehandi night, etc, should have separate guest list, depending on the budget and the number of the people to be invited for different occasions and should be distributed weeks before the marriage. Though, everybody needs to be invited for the actual wedding ceremony, but the other marriage ceremonies can have selected number of guests and relatives.
The selection of the vendors and the catering services should be done well in advance, so that to avoid any delays in the delivery of the food items and the preparation of the food and sweets. Also, the caterer should be of top quality, because food is the main element of marriage, which is remembered by people for ages, so the preparations for the food and the cocktails should be world class so that the guests leave with a satisfactory smile on their faces. As popularly said, the way to a mans heart is through his stomach, and it specially goes with the Indian marriages, where food is the main attractive element, because of which people come to marriages.
The responsibilities for the wedding should be divided among the close relatives of the family and some friends to ensure the completion of tasks on time. This enables in providing a stress relief to the family of the bride and the groom and the couple itself. The division of the responsibilities can be according to the personality type of each individual.
All the materials and important things for wedding, which has to be shopped, should be purchased, well in time, few days before the marriage. A checklist should be prepared for the wedding shopping, according to which the shopping should be done.
The shopping for the bride and groom acquires a lot of time, so separate days should be fixed for the shopping of the wedding couple, and a budget should be fixed for the same. The orders for the wedding ring, jewellery, wedding attires, should be made in advance and months before the wedding, to avoid any last minute hassles.
The appointments for the beauty treatments for the bride and the groom both should be booked much before the marriage date, because if the wedding is taking place in the peak season, then the number of clients in the beauty clinics would be much high, as compared to the normal times.
The bride and groom both should eat something before the wedding, to avoid any nervousness due to empty stomach at the wedding day. Especially brides should eat some sandwich or light stuff, so that she does not faint on the day of her wedding.
Though, anxiousness and nervousness are the factors, which accompany the happy feeling of marriage, all through the wedding preparations and wedding ceremonies, but following these steps one can look for some relief from the stress factor on the marriage day.
