subject: Conversation With Girls: What To Talk About? [print this page] Conversation With Girls: What To Talk About?
Every day you go to the same diner at a particular time only to see this girl eat as she reads her favorite book from afar. It has been over a week now and yet the biggest development you have reached was that to realize that she looks prettier in yellow other than in any colors. You have imagined yourself animatedly talking to her and making her smile and laugh her heart out every single night. You know that you like her a lot and if only you know what her name is, life would have been a lot easier for you. In your own little world, you have created a wonderful life together only to be crushed one day by a gorgeous stranger who spotted her the first time and had the guts to introduce himself and join her in her table. You watch them laughing out loud as if you are seeing the most tragic movie you have ever seen in your entire life. He could have been you.
A fluid conversation with a pretty girl is something that you can actually have at any time - if you are only brave enough to try. You can't just sit there and watch from afar and pray to the heavens in order for her to come over and have a little chat. It is you who needs to make a move. Things won't happen just by observing. Although, observing her, is part of the game plan. From the book she reads to the cocktail she drinks or the shoes she wears, believe me, there will be something out there that you could make use of as a springboard. (Just be careful using the shoes as a springboard. You don't want to be mistaken as someone who just wants to know where she buys shoes because you want a pair for yourself.) You must stand up, take a few steps and introduce yourself. After the introduction, the battle of words begins.
This is where you are going to be tested. Your first conversation will be your key to a possible first date or if you are really good, an invitation to come over her place after your lively talk. Always remember that girls are sensitive. Therefore, when she talks, listen to her intently even if you don't know a single thing about what she's been blabbering about. In fact, in this kind of situation, you, being unknowledgeable about the topic she's discussing is your edge. All you have to do is be honest and tell her that you're not aware of such a thing and you would really love to hear more about it. Another thing to remember is girls love to share.
As she talks, look into her eyes intently. Show her how mesmerized you are by her beauty then tell it out loud as if you were just talking to yourself. Then spin back to reality and continue with the conversation. Flattery is a very strong weapon. However, overusing it on the first meeting can make you look insincere. So, drops of flattery would be fine.
If she happens to be not much of a talker, you are to play the nutcracker. Girls love to talk about arts, books, love stories and themselves. You can start by asking questions about themselves. What are the things they like? Who are their heroes when they were younger? What kind of books they love to read? Why do they like them? They should always be involved in every question you ask. Talk about yourself only when asked. And do not be engrossed about yourself because they are just sharing a bit of their limelight to you. Remember that she is the superstar so; bring back the spotlight to her after a sentence or two.
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