subject: How to Flirt With Men – This Works, That Doesn't [print this page] How to Flirt With Men This Works, That Doesn't
Have you tried flirting with men in the past and the results have been less than favorable? Do you think you might be lacking something in your technique, but you don't know what it is? Do you believe it's all a waste of time anyway and flirting doesn't even accomplish anything? Think of it this way, flirting is essentially a great way of opening the door for a guy. Throw it open with too much enthusiasm and you'll frighten him. Gently push it open and he'll want to walk right in.
There are a whole lot of women out there who just have that natural way about them. They flirt without even realizing. It's part of their make up. For the rest of us, a little thought and effort is needed. The first thing you need to understand is that using the same tactics as those naturals isn't going to necessarily work for you.
You have to keep the flirting style as close to your own personality as you can. If you come off looking phony, guys won't really be interested. So try this.
Smile. Sounds simple enough, right. But you'd be surprised to see how many women have a hard time with this. Either they're frowning and pouting their way around a club, or they're pasting on a smile that is more frightening than welcoming.
Your smile should be genuine and warm. Don't just glue it to your face and remain stiff. If need be, think of something pleasant, a joke or funny story, and let it bring a gentle curve to your lips.
Connect with your eyes. As you look around you, you'll probably spot a few men who interest you. In a casual manner, continually scan your surroundings and let your eyes rest momentarily on several of the men you want to attract. When one looks your way, hold that connection for a brief moment, all while maintaining your warm smile, then move on.
This is a flirt, not a hunt, so you don't want to stare at him and make big googly, come over here eyes. You simply want to entice him. Continue looking around and come back to him. He's still looking your way? Great. Now your subtle smile can be slightly increased. Let him see the smile is not just accidental but meant for him. It won't be long before he comes over to you.
Have fun flirting with men and don't turn it into a chore.
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