subject: How To Be The Best Wedding Guest [print this page] To get a hint of how to dress to a wedding, find out about the venue, for example for a summer beach wedding with a poolside reception dress in a shirt, khakis and a tie. For morning and afternoon occasions a suit will be most appropriate, darker color theme is best for afternoon and evening weddings. There are cases where religion takes precedence in dictating the dress code for the occasion. The rule of thumb is "better be overdressed than underdressed. Not sure? Ask.
When invited to the wedding find out in advance directions to the wedding venue and when the day comes prepare yourself to leave early enough, this allows you time to beat the traffic and also get a parking space. Incase you're late due to reasons beyond your control, sneak in quietly and locate a back spot so as not to interrupt the ceremony.
Avoid the urge to idle outside visiting with people when the bride's limo calls in. Be seated at least 10 minutes prior to the start of the ceremony. When locating a seat pass in front of people already seated in the pew.
Acquaint yourself with the customs and traditions of the couple.
This is because different religions have different wedding rituals; therefore, inquire about the customs of the wedding you're attending. When in attendance follow the lead of other guests and also the officiant instructions. Respect yourself and respect others too. Remember that a wedding ceremony is a dignified solemn occasion. Avoid making inappropriate comments when the bride appears, no matter how good she looks. It's not amusing to snicker, cough or talk during the marriage vows. You're there as a witness, not a participant.
If seating has been assigned at the reception, don't move the place cards or trade places. There's a reason the bride chose that particular table for you. You can move around later. Make a point of saying hello to the families of the wedded couple and especially to older relatives. You will be long remembered as "the young man with such nice manners." A wedding guest list usually has a cross-section of ages and you never know who you'll meet. Use your networking skills to make a good impression. Carry a few business cards in case someone asks for one.
Don't talk during the speeches and at least pretend to listen. Don't make a toast unless you've been specifically asked to in advance. If you're the best man, prepare a few words beforehand. Avoid attempts at humor, particularly about the groom's old girlfriends. No one needs to know about the time when you and the groom partied all weekend in Jamaica. And be sure to say several nice things about the bride, remembering that her family still considers her their little girl.
In some cultures, it is customary to have a money tree or money dance, so bring some small bills for this. There might also be a "no host" or cash bar, or you may need a taxi to get home.
Finally, remember to thank the bride and groom before you leave.
by: Mathieu Courchesne
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