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Recovering From Breakup - Without Losing Your Mind...
So you're done crying your eyes out, moping around your apartment and staring at the boob tube for hours on end. What's next on your agenda? MOVE ON!
As the old saying goes, "Pick yourself up, Dust yourself Up and Start all over again." It may be easier said than done, but you have to start somewhere. Difficult as it is to step out into the real world, here's my advice, JUST DO IT! (But with a plan...)
Recovering from breakup may not be a pleasant experience right off the bat, but going through it you just may discover something new about yourself you may have never thought you were capable of. And that boosts your self-confidence like nothing else.
What I'm about to reveal are steps to take when recovering from breakup to get you back on your feet - and eventually you'll be able to dive into the dating game once more, guaranteed.
Recovering From Breakup STEP 1: The first step is Enjoy Being SINGLE again.
Take up a new hobby or learn a new sport. Smash that racket or swing that golf club, devise ways to enjoy your "YOU" time. get into that extreme sport which you have been always wanting to try. It's great for your body and will do loads of stuff for your ego.
Well, maybe you're not too much of the sporty type, then pick up that book you have always wanted to read or take the first flight out to wherever. Explore and enjoy being with number 1: YOU.
Then with all that taking time out for number one, you may have not noticed but all that activity has gotten you out of the rut you're in, developed your self confidence and made you whole again. Recovering from a breakup just might have been the best emotional experience you can ever have on the road to maturity. With all that action you may have not realized you have slowly energized your social life by making new friends and somewhere in that mix might have made a friend for life.
By this time you are feeling good with yourself by having rebuilt your inner stability and amaze yourself with what you have accomplished all this time. Remind yourself of your value as a person and a human being. This speeds up the process of recovering from breakup.
Recovering From Breakup STEP 2: Don't wuss out and go back to her...
Which takes us to the next step, maybe somewhere in between all that you may have lapsed and succumbed to the temptation to call your ex or entertain the thought that she may want you back. (Maybe a 'drunk-dial' or two...)
So step number two is to stop yourself and tell yourself you have to keep your dignity and commit to the situation - that both of you have broken up.
Even if you weren't the one who broke up your relationship, your ex may still be hurting too. Keeping away and giving them space as well as giving yourself space will be for the well being of both parties recovering from breakup.
Recovering From Breakup STEP 3: Don't dive back in too soon...
And finally step number three, Frankly, I don't advice that you go and get involved with anyone at this time. Take it easy, nice and slow. Relish all the time to feel better about yourself. The first person you get involved with may still meet the version of you who is not yet completely healed, the man recovering from breakup.
Right now, meeting up with friends or acquaintances for coffee, tea or a few drinks, will help you ease into the dating scene when you're ready to do so. Until then, keeping friends close is the best support you will have, recovering from a breakup until you take the plunge in to dating again. As a man, this is even more important, since most guys don't have the social network of support that women do.
And when you feel ready, the dating cycle begins again...
by: Carlos Xuma
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