subject: 4 Ways To Stop A Break Up From Happening [print this page] 4 Ways To Stop A Break Up From Happening 4 Ways To Stop A Break Up From Happening
Do you detect some unhappiness in paradise with your boyfriend? A breakup doesn't have to be inevitable, there are steps you can take. It may be tough to do, working at making it work will be worth it if you love each other.
The most important first step is to talk openly, searching for understanding. If you're experiencing unease and arguing, state your feelings clearly, but don't say anything harsh that you'll later regret. It's important that you give him a chance to make his point and listen, too. Considering the other person's view, listening and learning, is always a good step to prevent a breakup. Your boyfriend and you may not always see eye-to-eye on some matters. You each must build bridges to overcome the gaps in your feelings. Be considerate, be willing to forgive his mistakes, ask him to be willing to forgive yours, if any.
Though it may be a little difficult, encourage your boyfriend in a way that shows you support his efforts. A man is encouraged when he knows someone is out to promote him, to back him up. Getting involved in what your man likes to do, even if it's a bit far out for you, can go a long way to prevent a breakup. You don't have to be gung-ho, you don't have to get greasy, but if your boyfriend likes sports or working on cars, making an effort to gain interest will go a long way to prevent a breakup. If your guy is feeling down, listen to him and try to understand what's happening. If he wants to go to a sports event, know something about the sport and cheer with him when his team does well. Make your boyfriends dreams become your own, help him realize them by helping to the best of your ability. Be with your boyfriend in mind and spirit, through good times and bad.
The third step is a positive one for you and your boyfriend. Look at ways to make yourself more desirable. Maybe you're letting less important things get in the way of you being a desirable companion. Too many little things can add up and make your boyfriend not enjoy being around you. Just think about it for a while, look in a mirror, you can improve yourself to make yourself more satisfied with your personal image, physically and mentally. Don't change yourself too drastically, your boyfriend fell in love with you for a reason. Just put some new finishing touches on your persona. Spruce up your wardrobe, quit a bad habit or something he finds annoying. If you find something to make you happy, those around you will become happy, too. Buy a lot of cut flowers and make an arrangement. Paint a wall a groovy color. Go shopping. When you're happy, those around you are happier, and that can help prevent a breakup.
Quality time, time that is meaningful to both of you, is a necessary final consideration. Quality time should be time that involves only the two of you, doing something that gives you both a thrill. This improves a relationship, knits hearts and minds together. It's fun to have a "date night" every week. And a long weekend away together is always a special thing. Develop a hobby that you both enjoy. Just having a rap session for a little while at the end of the day can make a significant difference. Time together is like a cement to strengthen your relationship.
Following these tips will go a long way toward preventing a breakup. Nobody's perfect, but time and perseverance will overcome any imperfection in a relationship. Don't fear breaking up if you do your part and persevere.
