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Unmarried women in weddings typically have their own marriage in mind and this makes them approachable by guys. With this in mind you should understand why you shouldn't despair if you've been invited to a wedding and you don't have a date. My best guess is that you won't leave the wedding unaccompanied if you play your cards well. Continue reading to learn more.

Keep a positive attitude about the wedding you're attending. It's never easy going to a friends wedding when you're single, especially when you see another "single wolf" join the pack. It can really hit home that you want your own special someone and to be as happy as the wedding couple is. If a guy can feel this way, just imagine how much more so the single ladies in attendance do. That's why you should think of this as an opportunity to find someone, not as a reminder that you're single. Below are some tips to finding your own "soul mate" in the next wedding you attend.

Mingle immediately the ceremony concludes

Make eye contact with women you find attractive but avoid staring. Once you've established a connection, go speak to them. But don't forget to maintain eye contact. It shows interest and that you're genuinely listening to her. It won't hurt to praise the wedding while you're chatting a woman up. There is no better way to attract a woman at a wedding than to discuss how you'd like to get married some day. This will flag you as potential "husband" material, which ups your dating value immediately.

Join the Singles table

Request to be seated at the singles table. Here you are guaranteed access to single ladies for the better part of the evening. If your conversational skills are good then your wedding experience will be one filled with wonderful ladies clinging to every word you utter.

Make a move at the right time

Be informed that your pick up attempts will be void if you miscalculate the timing of your move. Doing something dumb like interrupting her while she is congratulating the bride's parents is not cool at all. This may label you as a "creep" and worse this word may spread fast among the single ladies and make them avoid you like plague. Neither should you make your move when the best man is making his speech or during the parents toast. Schedule your approach during appetizer or dessert serving time. If you notice a pack of girlfriends stepping out for a breather, don't hesitate to follow and get in on their conversation.

Steer clear of pick-up lines

You may have success with pick up lines in the past but when it comes to a wedding they won't serve you well. The wedding setting prohibits any attempts at juvenile antics. As a matter of fact they've been used to death, necessitating the need for originality. The festive mood of a wedding requires that you approach women in a respective and friendly manner. A humble but assertive approach is the best way to go. This is indicative of proper breeding and it will make women more receptive to you.

by: Johnny Touperin




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