subject: Attract Her Back - What Can You Do When She Will Not Talk To You? [print this page] Okay, so you already know that you want to attract back your ex girlfriend. You are not even conflicted on this. The problem is, she just does not seem to want to talk about it with you. In fact, she does not even want to talk about much of anything at all with you. Is this a bad sign, OR, is there some way that you can get your ex girlfriend talking to YOU again?
Well, more often than not, she would have no problems at all talking to you, it's just that she probably expects that any discussion is just going to lead to the inevitable. You asking her to give you another chance and her telling you that, NO, it's just not going to work out.
That does not mean that you cannot still attract her back. You can, as long as you do not keep on hounding her.
Here are some tips to get your ex girlfriend talking to you again and eventually, attract her back:
1. Keep conversation with her brief at first and don't bring up reconciling at all.
You need to kind of "condition" your ex girlfriend into seeing that not every conversation is going to be about getting back together. Give her some brief doses of talking to you, without ever bringing up the subject of reconciling. Just talk about some usual small talk things and throw in the occasional flirt. Make it brief, and be subtle about the flirting.
2. Slowly escalate each conversation till they last a little longer each time.
Hey, if the first time, all you get is about 30 seconds, that's okay. Conditioning her is all about repetition and the more times that you get in these little interactions, the more they will end up leading to bigger ones. Then, one day, you might find that she just keeps on talking to you, and the conversation lasts for an hour. That's a good sign.
3. Once the conversations have escalated, be a little more obvious with the flirting and entice her to flirt back.
If a man and a woman are constantly talking with each other and flirting all of the time, it's kind of only inevitable that it's going to lead to something. You can get back with your ex girlfriend without EVER bringing up the subject, just by making it seem like the natural conclusion. I have gotten back with a LOT of girlfriends, and never does it come up as a subject of conversation, it just kind of "happens."
by: Chris Tyler
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