subject: Child Behaviour Problems - Changing Child Behaviour [print this page] Many parents are aware of the fact that they are in dire need of some child behaviour help.
Help, tips, and useful advice on how to better control their kid's bad behavior is probably more to the point.
Is your child in need of a time out? Time outs can be an effective way to manage misbehavior.
So, how can we use the time-out method?
Utilizing a time out starts with you (the parent/s) deciding ahead of time what kind of behaviours are not acceptable and should result in a time-out. As a general rule, in my house - tantrums and aggressive or dangerous behaviour warrant a timeout.
You will then need to specify a location for the time-out to be served. Places that are seemingly uninteresting for children make the best time out zones, a kitchen chairs or a corners that are a little out of the way and not frightening are perfect. Should the case arise that you are in need of a time out zone when you are out side of your home, you should consider using a car (not on a hot day) or a nearby park bench or picnic area as a time-out zone.
It is very important to remember that when your child behaves in an unacceptable manner that you clearly and simply explain to the child why the behaviour is unacceptable and first give your child a warning that if the behaviour doesn't stop, you will give them a time out.
It is a very good idea to track how long your child has been in the time-out zone. As a general rule, Time outs should be brief. As a guide, 1 minute for each year of age is sufficient and effective. Always remain within sight or at least within earshot of the child, but try not to talk to them and do not let them talk to you or others.
We all know that some kids find it difficult to stay still, even for a minute, so if your child leaves the time-out zone, hastily return him or her to the zone and if need be, reset the timer. Naturally, when the time-out has come to an end, let the child go and play.
Your child's changing behaviour can be managed and there are many useful child behaviour management methods that are effective. The time out method is just one such method that can help parents to better manageChanging Child Behaviour.
