subject: How To Get A Girlfriend After Getting Dumped - 3 Ways To Get Back In The Saddle [print this page] If there is ever a moment in a guy's life when it can seem pretty close to impossible to get a girlfriend, it usually is the worst when it is right after you have been dumped. Not only do you have to deal with all of the mind games that you put yourself through trying to figure out why she dumped you and why you didn't measure up in her eyes, you also have to go back to that insecure feeling that just about every single guy knows. That combination does not just make you unattractive in a sense, it also takes away any confidence that you might have.
The thing is, if you wait too long to get back in the saddle and try to get a girlfriend, you can end up getting yourself into a corner where you feel like it will never happen and then next thing you know... months go by and you are hopelessly single and hoping that someone will take pity on you and want to date you. As we all know, that's probably not going to happen.
Here are 3 tips to help you get a girlfriend after getting dumped:
1) Tell yourself that you got dumped by one woman, not all women.
One of the mind tricks that you have to get around after getting dumped, is realizing that it is just one woman's opinion that you are not the right guy. Okay, maybe her and some of her friends feel that way. Still, there are plenty of women out there that probably will feel quite the opposite about you. Don't get caught up in thinking that all women are going to feel the way the woman who dumped you feels.
2) Force yourself to go out even when you want to stay at home.
It's natural to want to shelter yourself at home if you had your heart torn out from your chest, but it is also one of the worst things that you can do. Even if you have to force yourself to go out, do it. The moment you get around another good looking woman, I assure you that you will not feel so bad about what happened and if you can get that woman to flirt back with you, you just might think to yourself that you are glad you are single again.
3) Let yourself play the field for a little while, it helps.
There is a common train of thought that people who play the field are shallow and it's the wrong thing to do, and that is not always the case. When you let yourself partake in a variety of women, you get to see what you really want in a long term relationship, but you also allow yourself to stay free of the mindset that there is only one possible woman out there for you.
by: Chris Tyler
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