subject: Chemistry Is A Fun Subject When It Relates To Dating [print this page] As a student in high school, I used to dread the thought of having to go to chemistry class. Memorizing the periodic table of elements, having to read huge chunks of text in a book that could only be described as the most boring book that I ever had to read, and dealing with a teacher that could put me to sleep in about five minutes of a lecture was not what I would call a fun time at all. However, as I later found out, chemistry in the context of dating can be a fun subject to learn. It's something that I have tried to master and even though that may be a futile exercise, I don't mind the rewards that seem to come with the territory.
Chemistry is something that a lot of men just are not really sure of when it comes to dating. They may assume that having chemistry with a woman is akin to friendship and that is really not the case at all. You can be great friends with a woman and still not have the kind of chemistry that is needed in order for her to feel like she wants you. You can be very similar in your likes and your dislikes and she may still not ever find that she feels what she would call chemistry with you.
For the most part, we can just change the word from chemistry to attraction and that will give you a much better idea of what it is that you are actually trying to create. It's the attraction that you are after and it is attraction that a woman must feel if you are ever going to make her see as more than just a friend. It is the lack of attraction that makes a woman either never want to date you in the first place, or if she does, it is the lack of feeling attracted to you that is going to lead to a break up.
The first thing that you need to do as a guy if you want to get better with women is to learn how to create attraction with a woman. It's learning how to trigger all of the right emotions so that when a woman is with you, she feels that chemistry that makes her feel drawn to you. It makes her feel like she wants you to be her boyfriend.
How does a man like you create that level of attraction with a woman?
There are many different things that all combine together when a woman feels attracted to a guy. One of the best and really, easiest ways for you to make a woman feel attracted to you is to make her see that you are one of those guys that she can always count on to have a good time with. Life is filled with day to day pressures and doldrums and we are all looking to find someone that can help us to escape that feeling.
As a guy, you want to be the one that a woman turns to when she wants to escape those pressures and that boredom that is her life. You want to be the guy that she calls up on a Thursday night to make plans for the weekend with. Showing her that can be her source of a good time is just one of the many ways that you can make her feel attracted to you and make her feel like there is real chemistry there.
by: Andrew Grimsley
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