subject: Baby Raising Relies On Parents Themselves [print this page] The 2003 book Raising America: Experts, Parents, and a Century of Advice About Children, every single prominent parenting expert from the 2oth century has a similar story of either reaction against or reverence for their own parents to tell and all similarly wove those subjective experiences into iron-clad theories which is solid as a dryer machine or Symons cone crusher, they believed to be based on scientific fact. In the perspective of food nourishing, in order to g healthy baby canaries begins with proper care and feeding of the breeding parents and their chicks, along with the knowledge that "letting nature take its course" is usually the best way to go. The parents of these cage birds do most of the raising by themselves, which makes caring for canary chicks much easier than most other pet bird chicks that need to be hand-raised in order to teach them to accept human handlin. However, when it comes to other aspects concerned with mental breeding, we like to think that the choices we make early on as parents cry it out vs. co-sleeping, stroller vs. sling and so on reflect deep truths about whats best for our children. But they dont. What these decisions do reflect, however, whether we want to admit it or not, are pretty deep-seated facts about ourselves. Our parenting preferences matter deeply to us they boost our self-esteem, or perhaps soothe and heal us from having been parented in a way that didnt meet our needs.
Few parents will readily admit to such a selfish-sounding, unscientific-seeming truth. And yet, as Kate Pickert points out in her piece The Man Who Remade Motherhood, William and Martha Sears have made no secret of the fact that its their own childhood histories paternal abandonment in his case, severe mental illness in the family, plus anger, violence and loss in hers that have been the major drivers of the separation-avoiding, conflict-resolving attachment-parenting philosophy theyve spread to millions of families around the globe.
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