subject: 8 Simple Steps To A Safe Child!! [print this page] 8 simple steps to a safe child!! 8 simple steps to a safe child!!
It has been said that children are our most valuable resource. Therefore, it is absolutely necessary that we take positive measures to insure their safety and prevent them from becoming victims of crime.
Parents...
Just because the trip to the store will only take 10 minutes, if you leave children alone a stranger could be blocks away by the time you find out the child is missing. NEVER leave your child or children home alone, in a vehicle, at play, or anywhere.
Tell your children what a stranger is in terms they understand. Do you really think a 3 year old is going to think a stranger is dangerous if they offer a big bag of candy, probably not. Also, explain to your kids that just because they see someone everyday (e.g. mailman, paperboy, neighbor, etc.) it does not mean these people are not strangers.
If a child can recite the alphabet, they are old enough to be taught their full name, your name, full address, and phone number, including area codes. Teach them how to use a phone.
Teach your children the "What if...?" Game, making up different dangerous situations that they might encounter and helping them play out what they would do in that situation.
Always pay close attention to older cousins, uncles, aunts, brothers, sisters, neighbors, or family friends. Watch for sudden clues of sexual abuses such as, nightmares when sleeping, soiling the pants, scared for safety, not wanting to talk, not wanting to sleep alone anymore, sudden wait gain or loss, sleeping more in the daytime etc..Take the time to talk to your children and be alert to any noticeable changes in their behavior or attitude toward an adult or teenager; it may be a sign of sexual abuse.
Get to know your children day care provider or school administration. Ask what the protocol for a pickup of children, other than the parents. Always look for clues as to the inner working of the center or school such as the maintenance staff, outside contractors or visitors from other families and professionals during care or school hours. Set up procedures with your child's school or day care center as to whom the child will be released to other than yourself, and what notification procedure they are to follow if the child does not show up on time.
Most importantly, all children should know boundaries if they are old enough to talk, and be potty trained. Teach your children that their body is private and no one has the right to touch them in a way that makes them feel uncomfortable. If anyone touches them in a wrong way they should: SAY NO, GET AWAY, and TELL SOMEONE they trust.
One final point, a child should be taught to see an officer of the law or fireman as a friend. If walking with your small child and you see an officer, strike up a conversation, it will help teach your children who their friends are at all times
by: Erie Shore Security Products
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