subject: Some Basic To-Do's When Trying to Conceive [print this page] Women who are trying to conceive for years often end up being irritable and monster-like: pretty much how like many women are during their wedding preparations (so we have conceivezillas as there are bridezillas). Conceivezillas often end up destroying everything in their path, including which would be perfectly healthy relationships with their partners, families, and friends -- all in the name of conception. But there are better ways of dealing with the stress of failing to conceive, and becoming a conceivezilla is definitely one of them. The first thing to do when trying to conceive is to give your doctor (preferably your obstetrician) a visit. You and your partner should get a full body test if you haven't had one in the past five years. Troubleshoot the whole issue with your doctor: try to identify the factors that could be causing this difficulty, and make a commitment to do something about these factors. If, however, your doctor has assured you that you and your partner are in perfectly good shape (as it often is with many cases), then take their word for it. And consider this good news! Once you have removed any physical factors that might be interfering with your conception, then it is time for you to deal with the emotional and psychological aspects of trying to get pregnant. Take some time off with your partner. Enjoy each other, and establish both your commitment to parenthood. Also, stay away from or simply do something about all the pressures and stressors that are coercing you to conceive right away. Remember that this is something that you have to do in your own time: only by rushing things do you actually slow the whole process down. Lastly, remember to make each and every moment of your effort to conceive count. Stop yourself from stressing over every failure on that pregnancy test. Instead, think of the whole process as simply an extension of your love and your body's natural selection process at work. The delays generally mean (especially if you and your partner are perfectly healthy) that your body is simply taking its time to ensure that the best kind of offspring is being produced by you and your partner's union. To put it simply, it is your body's way of saying "I want you to have a healthy kid, so wait for just a little bit more." These basic to-do's are essentially there to remind you that there's no actual need to stress over trying to get pregnant. In fact, trying to conceive could be just as rewarding as getting pregnant, so enjoy it as much as you can!
Some Basic To-Do's When Trying to Conceive
By: Amy Reese
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