subject: Why Nice Guys Finish Last: Why Do Women Really Want Bad Boys and How To Be The Best Bad Boy [print this page] Why Nice Guys Finish Last: Why Do Women Really Want Bad Boys and How To Be The Best Bad Boy
Nice guys finish last, if they put women or girls on a pedestalif they believe girls the female gender doesn't want sex, and that they have to be constantly fussed over...
It is nice sometimes to give a girl sex if she wants it. (Except if she's indicated she wants to be platonic). It is the worst rejection when you don't show signs of sexuality to your date, as she will think you find her unattractive.
That is a mean thing to do to someone, take away their belief that they are desired by someone sexually. It is nice to flirt, bringing fun and laughter into her life.
It is nice to show your sexuality in low key ways (just a little eye contact with a smile for example, but not saying out right: let's have sex), bring the girl alive in her own sexuality, which to many women is what makes them really feel like a woman.
It is curious that men ask all the time "Do nice guys finish last? I'm just a nice guy, what do women like?" The answer is simple: be a nice person. That is what people do, if they want to be liked. It is true. And yet, when it comes to the bad boy image known for attracting hot women, it seems that being nice isn't the way to go.
Woh....there, not so fast partner. See, there is a bad boy, but he is sooooo....nice, that's why women like him.
If you will, consider sex symbol movie star like...Robert Pattinson, Matt Damon, George Clooney. Not their physical appearance, but how they act around women on screen. Nice, oh yes a bit shy, quiet voice. And bad boy? You bet.
So what do we mean by a bad boy? He flirts, smiles so his sexuality comes through, and he seems sure of himself. He has a life, he doesn't fuss over or try to overprotect women.
Not all that Bad, really. And nice, very nice. Ask any female what she is attracted to most and (if she can put it into words) she will say "a guy who is his own person, who is considerate and sensitive, but also knows how he feels and goes after what he wants."
So do nice guys finish last, should you be a bad boy? It is not either or, but both and more. As the song says, "girls just wanna have fun".
It is not fun to spend time with a wimp:
[The dictionary defines wimp as: timid or unadventurous person: colorless, indecisive, and not a leader among men]
And it is not fun to spend time with a macho man:
[Definition of macho: domineering, fierceness, bravado, chauvinism, per Wikipedia] ...a guy who never bathes and says "get me a beer, bitch".
So be nice, be the nicest, sexiest best bad boy you can be. Everywhere we go there are liars and cheats, they are not nice people. A decent guy who sincerely wants to meet a women and have a good time or a lifetime with her, should have it made.
Merely show her you are not one of the liars and schemers. And correct the mistakes you are making under the label of "nice", that make women want to run from you fast.
--Be who you are, changing into something you think she wants is suicide to a relationship, or a first encounter.
--Be respectful as you would to anyone whose favor you want to win, but leave the awe of women at the door before you leave, because it seems disingenuous and turns women off.
Nice guys finish last, but the nice guys who are the bad boys who know how to flirt, be themselves and treat women as people will finish first. If you can be the nice guy who is a bad boy, how to get a girl to like you and how to get a girlfriend shall not be an issue.
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